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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 32–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 1
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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New to Indiana (native Texan), looking to meet interesting people. Artsy, intelligent, humorous & self-confident.
What I’m doing with my life
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Professional musician. Performing, teaching, writing/composing. Early music specialist (music composed before 1750). Currently working towards earning a masters in early music performance at IU.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
not taking life too seriously. I walk faster than 90% of the US population, apparently. I also make a mean mezcal margarita.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I try not to think about this, as I can't control other people's perceptions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Classical - early music. Also love early 20th century (Shostakovich, Ravel, Stravinsky, etc.) Also a big Madonna queen, and other pop/dance groups like Goldfrapp, Cyndi Lauper, Annie Lennox, Scissor Sisters, Janelle Monae, etc. etc. (this list could be very long) Reading Amy Tan & David Levitan right now. Just finished Gone Girl - very traumatic. Re-reading Piers Anthony for some lighthearted escapism. And looooove me some baked chips & salsa.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music. Laughter. Coffee. My car. Friends. Orgasms.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Besides the usual male preoccupation, notes frequently bounce around in my brain, seeking to burst forth...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
never typical - could be teaching, going to a concert, hanging with friends, travelling, chilling at home, on a date if I'm super lucky
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Already 'fessed up about Piers Anthony. What else do you want? OK, I'll give you Amy Grant... looove her
You should message me if
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I sound remotely interesting to you, or if you just want to say "hey".