I am thoughtful, kindly, and intense-ish.
My Self-Summary
Some things I'm passionate about: music, especially classical;
figuring things out and explaining them to other people (I earn my
bread as a scientific researcher and teacher); photography; words;
friends and family.
Some more things I like a lot: conversation; yoga; gardening; swing
dancing; hiking; museums; cooking; reading; writing; dogs (and
other animals, but there's something special about the intensity of
dogs).
Some things I don't much care for: TV, most pop music, football,
baseball.
I’m really good at
Talking about feelings. Knowing what time it is even if I haven't
seen a clock for hours. (Working steading at) being conscious of my
faults and open to criticism. Being open to new experiences.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm often a little reserved in groups and on first meetings; what
people probably get first about me is that I'm interested in lots
of things. Those that become friends get to know my warm, generous,
and affectionate sides.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books: My favorites ever are Middlemarch and Anna Karenina (don't
make me choose between them). I tend to alternate between big
classic novels and contemporary fiction, with forays into mysteries
and cyberpunk.
Music: Pretty much any classical music, but especially 19th and
20th century chamber music. Bach, especially keyboard works, cello
suites, and cantatas. Schubert, especially the songs and piano
pieces. Berg violin concerto. Everything by Steve Reich and most
things by John Adams. I also listen to lots of jazz and folk/world
music. The two albums I've listened to the most in the past two
years are New Ancient Strings (Toumani Diabate) and Angela Hewitt's
recording of the Bach partitas.
Movies (looking back at my recent NetFlix rentals)... Milk, Kung Fu
Panda, The Band's Visit, Vera Drake, Terminator, Touch the Sound,
The Wire, The Visitor, The Diving Bell and the Buttefly,
Persepolis, There Will Be Blood, Lust Caution, La Jetee, Hairspray,
Shortbus, City of the Lost Children, Metropolis, Delicatessin. My
favorite is Wings of Desire. I'll see anything from Pixar, even the
bad ones.
Food: I can't eat salt so I don't go to restaurants much and don't
do most interesting cuisines at all. Fortunately, I like cooking at
home.
The six things I could never do without
close friends
my work
my bike
the new york times
schubert piano sonatas
books on tape
On a typical Friday night I am
So many choices... Maybe out with friends, maybe (especially if
it's First Friday) wandering aimlessly around the galleries of Old
City, maybe working, maybe making some photographs, maybe sitting
out on my deck with a grilled steak, a mondo salad, and a good book
watching the sun set...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
What a silly question!
You should message me if
You're smart, sensitive, self-aware, and in the market for
interesting friends...