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22 Lakewood, WA Genderqueer


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:08pm
Queer, Pansexual
Black, Indian, White
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hey ya'll, my name's Dion or Bryant. She/her, he/his, them/them pronouns work for me. Just moved to Tacoma and looking for new people to meet in the area (or anywhere really. Yay pen pals!) This site has been really good at introducing me to some of the closest friends I have today, and I'm hoping I'll have the same luck :).

I am loving and entertaining once we know each other well enough, and sort of an x-video game freak. I'm easily entertained, so heading out for an adventure on the city to watching a movie and chilling out is appealing to me. I'm ESFP if that matters :p.

I'm adaptable, fun-loving, intuitive, and nostalgic.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've graduated college! So now I'm just figuring things out. I got plenty of ideas of where I want to go. So now it's just putting them into action!

Currently work as a Program Specialist at Tacoma Community College.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing stories and poems, telling stories, living in the moment, finding entertainment in life's misfortunes.

My way of giving love is Quality Time so i'm really good at giving my time to the people I'm closest with. I've always been the type to enjoy the journey more than the destination. "Who cares about Disney Land, we had a great road trip!"
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically: My height. I tower over everyone :S lol.

Personality-wise: I'd say it depends on who I'm with. For the most part, I generally have a desire to talk to anyone and everyone at any given moment. I'm a bit of a social butterfly ^__^ lol. If I'm quiet, its either because I'm uncomfortable or I'm more interested in what is going on and what is being said.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fav books: What Night Brings by Carla Trujillo, Linden Hills by Gloria Naylor,Redefining Realness by Janet Mock, Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver, Push by Sapphire, Another Country by James Baldwin (I would recommend this one in particular a million times over)

Fav Movies: Black Swan, Skin, Dreamgirls, A League of Their Own, Selena, Chicago... Don't really have much, but watching bad movies and making fun of them has always been a fav activity haha (not that I'm talking shit about a movie every five seconds...No really, I don't). I've probably seen Showgirls countless times because I think its possibly the funniest movie I've ever seen, and love to watch it with company :P. The Rush Hour movies have always been all time favorites of mine (except for the third one). I'm drawn to movies dealing w/ historical events.

Fav shows: True crime shows (anything pertaining to mystery always catches my attention), and reality television, to an extent lol. I'm not gunna lie, these slow motion train wrecks kinda excite me XD. I still occasionally watch cartoons haha, but I love The Boondocks, and I'm starting to get more into South Park.

Fav music:
Top 5 Songs
1. Rain on Me by Tamia
2. Diary by Alicia Keys
3. Sky's the Limit by Notorious B.I.G.

I've definitely been trying to expand my musical interests. I've been called an old soul for my musical choices. Soul & R&B is, and always will be, my fav genre: I love love love Tamia. You are my soul mate if you love her too ^__^. Aaliyah, Tank, SWV, 702, Alicia Keys, Jennifer Hudson, Brandy, Kelly Price, Avant, Monica, Jazmine Sullivan, Dondria, Alexander O'neil (Love the 80s), but i also like Old School and Underground Hip Hop and some pop and rock. I discovered that Funk has been a hidden gem that I've learned to love after countless car trips with my parents. Smooth Jazz has been a very good relaxer from time to time. I've played hard rock occasionally and I only listen to mainstream music out of desperation. Plus, I gotta keep up-to-date. Rebecca Black is prbly in the top ten haha. Ask me why XD.

Fav food: I'll eat anything and will most likely enjoy it, but I gotta say, seafood is the greatest =D!!! Also Indian food :P.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Relationships: I wouldn't be the person I am without all the people in my life. And they all challenge me to be a better me.
Music: A great comfort for me. Just a warning, but I replay songs ALOT.
Video games: ...I need sumethin to occupy my time during breaks haha. Plus, I do bond well with people I can game with, whether they are a beginner or not :p.
Humor: I'm the most comfortable with people I can laugh with.
Daydreaming: I could spend a grip of time staring in the distance, staring at the ceiling, at a special someone ;D lol, and I might be thinkin something completely random. I have very interesting thoughts that play out like movies in my head: It beats T.V. on a good day lol...
Love: This doesn't necessarily have to pertain to romantic love. Love of friends and fam are my life force!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I should write next, state of affairs, what purpose do I serve in my own community, and how can I be my best for the people around me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to figure out what to do! Being in Tacoma has sapped me of things to do so hopefully you can help me out lol.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been known to run into doors in dark well as falling on stairs in two story houses. Ehh, best I could think of ;P. Maybe you should ask me something you wanna know...
You should message me if
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You'd like to take the risk! I will message just about anyone. If there's anything I've learned to do from going through college is to allow connections to happen and to let relationships flow. I'm not about to purposefully prevent a potential connection from happening with another person UNLESS I have good reason to. So let's BOTH be brave.