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bdb2tx

53 / M / Straight / Available

Houston, Texas

His Details

Last Online
Today – 7:33am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
The most serious relationships I have, have come from here. Having said that, I can be very flippant here thanks to that. I take every interaction here seriously and I will take you seriously.
I am married. So let's start there. I do have permission to seek extramarital affairs. There are three basic things I agreed to when I was given permission that you should know. 1) I am not looking to replace my primary relationship, although I do enjoy intimacy and will be caring and attentive to you. 2) I can't father your children, that creates a situation that endangers my primary relationship. 3) I will be careful and not give (nor receive) any STD's from this activity. I also have created a fourth rule, which is that I will be be discreet, I.E. I will not come home with your scent upon me and elaborating on what a good time we had. One thing I would like to clarify, since it's been mentioned more than once. Rule 1 doesn't mean I am not going to care about you, only want you for sex or treat you like a booty call. There's more to me than my sex drive and I enjoy a good time with someone even if it's NOT under the covers.
I do meet during the day. If you're looking for an evening plaything, sorry. I can sometimes meet late at night. I can also do weekends away. It would be better if you liked beer though, since that's what I write about.
What about me otherwise? I lead a varied and very enjoyable life. I'm a homebrewer (beer), lover of music (all kinds), I explore wine and food, ride rollercoasters, collect single malt scotch, make art, do some photography, watch baseball and have a host of other interests. (Including women...) I've earned a couple of degrees, learned to fly airplanes and consider myself to be very relaxed and easy-going. I have had my own TV show, I've been in a parade or two, Have run the marathon four times now, ridden from Houston to Austin on the MS150 three times and travel regularly. (If you can get away for a weekend now and then, the possibilities are limitless!) I write for a newspaper as well as several local newsletters and have also been published nationally.
I do note that the matching here seems to completely ignore my marital status and whether you're looking for single men or not. I will do my best to not waste your time if I see you're looking for single men only, although I have been known to remark upon exceptionally interesting profiles, looking for singles or not.
What I’m doing with my life
At the moment, I am a house husband. I write and do occasional consulting work to contribute to our well being, but am not currently employed in the 9 to 5 sense. I cook, clean and do other home maintenance activities, like totally rebuilding the kitchen and painting the entire house, inside and out. I have several projects I work on in my free time, including a DVD set of my tv shows, photography and some teaching.
The first things people usually notice about me
My personality. I am fairly outgoing and talkative and have to sometimes be careful I don't dominate the conversation. I am a pretty unique person, but thankfully not in the weird sort of way!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My reading leans to science fiction and fantasy works. I can read voraciously when I am deeply into a book, but these days tend to take them a chapter at a time before bed. I also have dabbled in erotic fiction from time to time!
I consider myself to be cinematically impaired. Unless it's from Pixar or is a Star Trek movie, chances are I never saw it in a theater. This is not to say I haven't seen some movies at the cinema, but as a rule it's cable or DVD for me.
Musically, I span the range from opera to rock to electronic. I have a library of MP3's that could play over 3 months without repeating a track. Favorite groups are Pink Floyd, Genesis and U2. Favorite artists would be Peter Gabriel, Mike Oldfield and Jean Michel Jarre. Favorite composers are J.S. Bach, Verdi, Puccini and many others.
I am not as much of a spicy food lover as I once was, but love my steaks and seafood. Japanese, Thai, Tex-Mex and Italian are my favorite ethnic foods.
The six things I could never do without
Women... they are lovely to see and even better to love.
Alcohol... "The source of, and solution to, all of life's problems" -Homer Simpson.
Music... Life is a wonderful thing, but sometimes a soundtrack improves it.
Dogs... They are a source of constant joy and are always there for you.
Art... The world seen through other eyes informs our own perceptions.
Butter... Seriously, everything is better with it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I am doing next (projects, trips, etc...)
On a typical Friday night I am
Home, but you can change that!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a voyeuristic streak in me a mile wide.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
My profile has interested you and not made you flee in terror. I may be on here to find something more than a friend, but always am happy finding a new friend of any sort! Amazingly enough my profile name here is the same as it is at the Y! should you want to chat...