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bdm28

46 M Rockville, MD

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:06am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am a guy with values, intellegence, integrity, sound beliefs and one with morals seeking that one girl who gets me and wants to ultimately build something committed and special together.

Cliff notes version of me ... I'm a down to earth individual who is a dad to two great girls that are honestly my two biggest accomplishments. I'm a confident man, but there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. I know where that line is. I'm educated and while I personally don't use this as criteria for finding someone I know that many do. I'm very real and comfortable in my own skin. I don't claim to be something that I'm not. I'm just as comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt at a dive bar as I am with my power tie and best suit at an event. If you like to laugh then we have a great starting point. I've been told I'm pretty funny. I like to say I am serious ... but I don't take myself seriously. While I am busy with my profession I am definately balanced. I like to do stuff but at the same time it's nice to lay back and just appreciate the small things life is all about. I am a very good listener and usually have a different slant on things. I'm a romantic and I'm a gentleman. Chairs will be held, doors will be opened and pedestals will be conveniently placed right in front of your shoes should that intrigue you.

The girl I'm looking for should be affectionate, optimistic, caring, kind hearted and grounded. She should have a touch of class that makes her intriguing. Confidence is a sexy quality that I really like. I enjoy a woman with her own opinion that has no problem telling me about it yet understands the importance of being diplomatic. Intellegence is sexy too. Like me she should not only appreciate the time running away somewhere but also love to lay back and charge the batteries.

With relationships It all starts with friendship. I've learned that if you don't have that it will never last. No matter how hard you try. Respect is key as is genuinely caring for each other and treating each other the way you would want to be treated. Life is better with two.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying it!! Working hard. Loving my two daughters and family. Having fun and appreciating every day ... they are not guaranteed.
I’m really good at
I've been told, on several occasions, putting others at ease. I'm very laid back, diplomatic and don't sweat the small stuff. I think my sense of humor comes into play here as well. I know "I am real" sounds very cliche ... but, well, I am real. I am the kind of guy who appreciates you for who you are. I'm not one who is going to try to change you.
The first things people usually notice about me
The electronic tracking devise on my ankle. Actually, I am joking. Had that taken off last month. ;) (joking part ii) My winning, ahem, personality. I have been told that I am pretty funny and that when I am on my game it can be downright hilarious. Also, I my height and confident demeanor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Variety is the spice of life! I have my interests but I appreciate other interests and sometimes stepping outside my sandbox. However, with food ... not so much!
The six things I could never do without
1. My kids
2. Starbucks Coffee
3. iPhone
4. Happiness
5. Laughter
6. Did I say Starbucks Coffee??
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why do we call it a DRIVEway to park our car (insert Boston accent here) when we call it a PARKway that we drive on? How, exactly, did the Kardashians become famous?? Maintaining my happiness. How my kids are growing up and what I need to do to help them be successful. How can I become a better person and make a difference in others lives - both personally and professionally.
On a typical Friday night I am
First guess is recovering from the week. Next guess is with friends. Third guess would be working out or swimming.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You think we might have a connection. :] You know how to laugh and you have a fantastic sense of humor. You are real and can think outside the box. You aren't allergic to my cute and adorable 50 lb lab mix - lol - yes, it has happened. You know the difference between "there", "their" and "they're". You have a family member that plays soccer and you are willing to listen to me brag about my sweeper as she is doing amazing things in her playing career (scholarship??? hmm) and I, in turn, will listen to yours. You eat healthy like me yet are willing to run to Cheesecake Factory for a dessert to go when I am cracking and need a fix - bad! You are affectionate and appreciate the importance of hand holding. You love jumping on a train or in a car to go do something yet you appreciate the fine art of being lazy to recharge batteries when appropriate. You agree to NOT laugh at my golf game and, in turn, I will try very hard not to laugh at yours. No promises. ;) You know the difference between a breaking ball and slider and truly appreciate when a Pitcher throws a low-and-away curve following a high-and-in heater. You love the ocean. You dig Boston accents.