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bdsubaj

45 Elkton, MD Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 13
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I recently relocated back to the Cecil County and am living close to the Elkton, MD/Newark, DE border. I'm possibly looking to return to the Baltimore area soon. I am educated, some college in Web Development (3 classes away from my degree). I am Phi Theta Kappa Honor Society alumni (Chapter President for 2 years, Regional President for 1 year), and I enjoy evenings out as well as evenings in.

I was in a vanilla relationship for 13 years until my partner passed away suddenly in Nov 1, 2009. I recently started working out at Planet Fitness in Elkton, MD in the mornings. I'm looking to lose a little more weight and tone up what I have already lost since 2010. The pic of me in the gray was from September 2009, before my weight loss. I was a size 42 back then and I am a size 34 and still losing. Working more on toning and shaping than on losing.

I am a former drag performer who has recently come out of retirement in the Baltimore drag scene. It has been 20 years since I last performed, but have my first show appearance on March 2, 2014 at the Rowan Tree bar on Charles Street in Baltimore. Hoping to be invited to take part on the Lady Lisa Drag Stage at Baltimore Pride as well this year.

Ultimately, I would like to find another LTR someday, but for now regular playmates or NSA fun is good. I like movies, TV, music, concerts, theater, and festivals. I'm not a sports fan. Also like to socialize at the bar once in a while. I am very down to Earth and friendly with almost everyone, and I make friends pretty easily.

I am a novice bondage sub/boy. I like long-term and short-term tight, restrictive bondage in whatever does the trick for making my body accessible for use. The less I can move, the better I like it. I like to struggle and fight against my bonds, and occasionally resist my DOM/DADDY when he wants a reluctant sub/boy. I love to be blindfolded during the entire session, and gagged unless I am being "forced" to service DOM/DADDY and/or another sub. I am looking for tops that will explore, expand, and respect my limits.

I AM INTO: sexual bondage, ass play (no fisting), mild spanking and flogging, light to medium tit torture, mild cock and ball torture, mild electro play, edging, sucking, and being "forced" to suck. I play with a single man, couples, or a small group of males with at least one DOM/DADDY present and in control of the scene.

I AM INTERESTED IN EXPLORING: long-term bondage (longer than 3 or 4 hours), sleep sacks, sensory deprivation, long-term mummification, overnight/weekend sessions, wax, and suspension bondage. I am also interested in exploring cages, cells, racks, stocks, and other interesting bondage furniture restraints.

HARD LIMITS: Breath Control, any internal body fluid exchange, scat, harsh pain, sounds, cutting, fisting, branding, piercing, drugs of any kind used on me, unsafe sex or bare backing, or vanilla sex.

I prefer older men, but that is negotiable. I am not hung-up on looks, but like a guys that takes care of themselves, are clean, DRUG and DISEASE free (as I am, tested NEG 11/2012), and trimmed or well-groomed facial hair is a plus.

I am a smoker, but I am working on quitting. I use an ecig most of the time to avoid smoking real cigs.

Please drop me a message if you are interested in getting together to meet.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in a call center.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My friendly, loving, sweet nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love horror books and movies. Stephen King, Dean Koontz, and Clive Barker are at the top of my list.
Eclectic music listener (1950-present most genres, especially 80's pop & hard rock and heavy metal). KISS is my all time favorite band. Other favorites are Duran Duran, Five Finger Death Punch, Pet Shop Boys, Korn, Dusty Springfield, Halestorm, REM, Alice in Chains, Kesha, The Monkeys, The Beatles, and ABBA. Just to name a few.
I enjoy show like Alphas, True Blood, Newsroom, Strike Back, Magic City, Supernatural, How I Met Your Mother, Under The Dome, Dexter, Boardwalk Empire, Shameless, Being Human, Warehouse 13, Banshee, Grimm, The Walking Dead, and old 80's and 90's sitcoms. Just to name a few.
Loved Harry Potter series. I have read 6 of the 8 Tales of the City books. I read computer books for school and personal learning.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My computers. I play games and learn a lot on my computers.
My DVR. I record a lot of shows because of my work hours.
Premium Channels. I watch too many movies and series on them.
My car. I like the feeling that I can be free to go almost anywhere, when I want to.
My pets. I have to have at least 1 pet to care for and love.
The sixth thing you have to ask me about; it's sexual.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to get ahead. I want to succeed in live for my own personal reasons, and not for anyone else.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a fetish sex addict.
You should message me if
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You are a white top who likes to walk on the wild side a bit. Sorry, I am not physically attracted to men of color.