I was in a vanilla relationship for 13 years until my partner passed away suddenly in Nov 1, 2009. I recently started working out at Planet Fitness in Elkton, MD in the mornings. I'm looking to lose a little more weight and tone up what I have already lost since 2010. The pic of me in the gray was from September 2009, before my weight loss. I was a size 42 back then and I am a size 34 and still losing. Working more on toning and shaping than on losing.
I am a former drag performer who has recently come out of retirement in the Baltimore drag scene. It has been 20 years since I last performed, but have my first show appearance on March 2, 2014 at the Rowan Tree bar on Charles Street in Baltimore. Hoping to be invited to take part on the Lady Lisa Drag Stage at Baltimore Pride as well this year.
Ultimately, I would like to find another LTR someday, but for now regular playmates or NSA fun is good. I like movies, TV, music, concerts, theater, and festivals. I'm not a sports fan. Also like to socialize at the bar once in a while. I am very down to Earth and friendly with almost everyone, and I make friends pretty easily.
I am a novice bondage sub/boy. I like long-term and short-term tight, restrictive bondage in whatever does the trick for making my body accessible for use. The less I can move, the better I like it. I like to struggle and fight against my bonds, and occasionally resist my DOM/DADDY when he wants a reluctant sub/boy. I love to be blindfolded during the entire session, and gagged unless I am being "forced" to service DOM/DADDY and/or another sub. I am looking for tops that will explore, expand, and respect my limits.
I AM INTO: sexual bondage, ass play (no fisting), mild spanking and flogging, light to medium tit torture, mild cock and ball torture, mild electro play, edging, sucking, and being "forced" to suck. I play with a single man, couples, or a small group of males with at least one DOM/DADDY present and in control of the scene.
I AM INTERESTED IN EXPLORING: long-term bondage (longer than 3 or 4 hours), sleep sacks, sensory deprivation, long-term mummification, overnight/weekend sessions, wax, and suspension bondage. I am also interested in exploring cages, cells, racks, stocks, and other interesting bondage furniture restraints.
HARD LIMITS: Breath Control, any internal body fluid exchange, scat, harsh pain, sounds, cutting, fisting, branding, piercing, drugs of any kind used on me, unsafe sex or bare backing, or vanilla sex.
I prefer older men, but that is negotiable. I am not hung-up on looks, but like a guys that takes care of themselves, are clean, DRUG and DISEASE free (as I am, tested NEG 11/2012), and trimmed or well-groomed facial hair is a plus.
I am a smoker, but I am working on quitting. I use an ecig most of the time to avoid smoking real cigs.
Please drop me a message if you are interested in getting together to meet.