i am very analytical and can seem mechanical sometimes in how i approach things, and i'm very work-oriented. i work hard to maintain an even keel, and stay in a place of calm and contentment as much of the time as possible. i'm slow to warm up to people. however: i do build deep, mutually-enriching relationships and am hoping to find someone to fall in love together with. i still believe in love. i also believe you can will it, or withhold it willfully, and i prefer the former.
i have a comedy-variety show featuring puppets, among other unusual endeavors, but i am not my characters. https://youtu.be/gvtJ6OwuaW4
i Love culture. it's my #1 fun. i'm in love with aesthetics & beauty, but the really important things to me are Far below the surface. i get along best with the politically Aware & Very Liberal - but not libertarian, conspiritorial, or Deeply cynical/negative.
about looks /attraction:
i have chemistry w/ sometimes quirky, always fairly slender men (runner/tennis build, not football/stocky), without a hairy face. ie: leonard cohen, barack obama, anderson cooper, lance armstrong.
deep, evolving people Yes, can have basic 'chemistry' orientations - but - are most concerned with Insides. if you're hung up on intimate hair removal or barbi style, we're not a match.
i would love to meet someone for the next stage of life - so i'm looking for someone who feels available and willing and ready - and wanting - a new, long term relationship. someone who understands that takes both patience and work as well as the luck of finding the right match.
mine (1) is an adult. i prefer not dating anyone currently in a stage of life with kids under 13.
ginger beer, hard cider, liquers, malbec
it's a wonderful life, defending your life, i <3 huckabees
WERS, WUMB, music from around the world
the little prince, sinclair lewis, edith wharton
but one way or another, always evolving. (but i am not ani difranco ;) http://youtu.be/TMGJhPO0fUo
dating is not my job, thus i cannot reply to every note. generic one-liners on the 'how you doing' spectrum, copy-pastes, random compliments on physical presence alone, and empty profiles will not inspire a reply. how about a conversation?
i'm looking for intellectual And chemistry compatibility. i'm currently building a lot of new friendships and not interested in building new platonic friendships solely thru meeting on this portal.
I am currently in an openly non-monogamous relationship that has a defined likely endpoint and is not limiting.
if you're the opposite of what i'm looking for, this will not inspire a reply. the right person is out there for you elsewhere. this is not a catalog. if we both are interested, that will be great, if not, that's not an insult.
Opposites include: current/recent military/police; STOCKY/heavy build/football player body structure, permanent facial hair; no cultural interests; >1.5 hours' drive from boston; <39; anti vaxxer, 911 truther, food obsessions; lifestyle S/M; children <13; conservative or libertarian