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46 F Quincy, MA

I’m looking for

  • All who like bi women
  • Ages 39–66
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:14pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
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Likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Show me your face
I crave
flowers and gardens
open your lips
I crave
the taste of honey
~ Rumi

THAT is what i'm looking for. want that kind of Passion & Affection? will you let it in? nurture it?

tl;dr version: Cultured! Very liberal! playful, passionate, Ready to partner. sks Same in a maybe quirky, definitely unbearded, slenderish guy. any kids 13+

i'm kinda wacky, but probably much more straight than most wacky folks. i have my biting moments - but actively work to be kind. i Choose to "overlook" many negatives, but also avoid being holier-than-thou. i have strong opinions of many years' research, study, and contemplation, & don't pussyfoot-around with 'feminine' language. there's a bundle of contradictions, and i'm flawed by any measure. But - day after day, few people are as collaborative, flexible about the endless "stuff," respectful, & NON passive-aggressive. And few are as self aware and insightful.

i get a lot of broad smiles from folks, but also a good share of puzzled looks. i choose to walk on the sunny side of the street, but at times it's so easy to get really down about humanity. i'm an introvert who has self-molded into Partial extroversion. my friends are mostly introverts - a few are extroverts - but really hyper folks wear me out.

i founded an organization to take over the world & bring about the New UtopiaTM.

about interests:
i Love culture. it's my #1 fun. i hang out with others into culture (as audience is fine) - we have great conversations - my #1 sexy. i'm in love with aesthetics & beauty, but the most important things to me are Far below the surface. i seek someone also swimming in the depths. i get along best with folks who are politically Aware & Very Liberal - but not libertarian, conspiritorial, or Deeply cynical/negative.

about looks /attraction:
i have chemistry with sometimes quirky, always fairly slender men (runner/tennis build, not football/stocky), w/out a permanent hairy face. samples: leonard cohen, barack obama, anderson cooper, lance armstrong.

deep, evolving people Yes, can have basic 'chemistry' orientations - but - are more concerned with Insides. if you're hung up on intimate hair removal, high heels, or barbi style, we're not a match.

about kids:
i'm not rearing any. mine (1) is an adult. i'd prefer to date someone w/out kids <13. i enjoy & interact well with teens. also - not having any more babies. i'd love to adopt children from foster care someday, If fates align.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i'm Escaping the cage of a design business and soaring into the air of an art career - without a net.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
solving problems efficiently and calmly. recently i got a queen box spring down two full stairwells and around three Tight corners, by myself. i get stuff done.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
if i'm 'on' - my ineffable magnetism. if i'm off - i'm flying under the radar.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
i like
cocktail parties, theatre, unusual performances.
world music, 88.9 WERS.
stephen colbert, smart cars, sushi.
green tea mochi, coconut ice cream, dark chocolate.
black & white movies, robert maplethorpe.
louise bourgeois, andy warhol.
the smell of a woodshop.
dr. who, startrek, skeeball.
dancing. the beach after dark.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
are the 6 Secrets to Happily: Science, Sex, Psychology, Culture, Exploration, and Games.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
lately whether it might be fun to try being a unicorn
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing art, looking at art, working, dinner with friends, house projects, swaying in the ocean breeze on the porch hammock ...

but one way or another, always evolving. -
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i am a big softie who can tear up at advertisements, random songs, news stories...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
men: if you ARE the droid i'm looking for - interests (culture!) - politics (liberal!!) - looks (rather slender! non-furry!)

women: if you are looking for new friends who if the fates align might become friends with benefits. or not. either way. yes, i am really bi, and have been my entire adult life. i only date men for LTRs at this point but that doesn't preclude many types of deep friendships with women.


if UR conservative - even a 'fiscal conservative' as i think starving grannies and children so that plutocrats can have even more piles of dough is uncivilized - i try to have compassion for your differently-abelled brain chemistry that largely makes you what you are (brain chemistry is not a lifetime sentence! you can change!). but, that does not extend to dating you, so please save us both time. i know, it's a blue state, pickings are few. i know the good deep inside of you is attracted to fun-loving liberal women. how about becoming liberal? or celibate. either of those two would be a good solution to your problem.

i Am open to people 'outside the edges' of my wishlist, but not the opposite of what i'm looking for. i reply (at Least w/ polite decline) to all inquiries except from opposites.

OPPOSITES include: current/recent military/police; STOCKY/heavy build/football player body structure, permanent facial hair; no cultural interests; >1.5 hours' drive from boston; <37; anti vaxxer; S/M / trans; more than 1 child <14, any children <12.

someone else is out there for you.