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47 Quincy, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • All who like bi women
  • Ages 39–66
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:43pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Show me your face
I crave
flowers and gardens
open your lips
I crave
the taste of honey
~ Rumi

THAT is what i'm looking for. want that kind of Passion & Affection? will you let it in? nurture it?

tl;dr version: Cultured! Very liberal! playful, passionate, Ready to partner. sks Same in a maybe quirky, definitely unbearded, slenderish guy. any kids 13+

i'm kinda wacky, but probably much more straight than most wacky folks. i have my biting moments - but actively work to be kind. i Choose to "overlook" many negatives, but also avoid being holier-than-thou. i have strong opinions of many years' research, study, and contemplation, & don't pussyfoot-around with 'feminine' language. there's a bundle of contradictions, and i'm flawed by any measure. But - day after day, few people are as collaborative, flexible about the endless "stuff," respectful, & NON passive-aggressive. And few are as self aware and insightful.

i get a lot of broad smiles from folks, but also a good share of puzzled looks. i choose to walk on the sunny side of the street, but at times it's so easy to get really down about humanity. i'm an introvert who has self-molded into Partial extroversion. my friends are mostly introverts - a few are extroverts - but really hyper folks wear me out.

i founded an organization to take over the world & bring about the New UtopiaTM.

about interests:
i Love culture. it's my #1 fun. i hang out with others into culture (as audience is fine) - we have great conversations - my #1 sexy. i'm in love with aesthetics & beauty, but the most important things to me are Far below the surface. i seek someone also swimming in the depths. i get along best with folks who are politically Aware & Very Liberal - but not libertarian, conspiritorial, or Deeply cynical/negative.

about looks /attraction:
i have chemistry with sometimes quirky, always fairly slender men (runner/tennis build, not football/stocky), w/out a permanent hairy face. samples: leonard cohen, barack obama, anderson cooper, lance armstrong.

deep, evolving people Yes, can have basic 'chemistry' orientations - but - are more concerned with Insides. if you're hung up on intimate hair removal, high heels, or barbi style, we're not a match.

about kids:
i'm not rearing any. mine (1) is an adult. i'd prefer to date someone w/out kids <13. i enjoy & interact well with teens. also - not having any more babies. i'd love to adopt children from foster care someday, If fates align.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i'm Escaping the cage of a design business and soaring into the air of an art career - without a net.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
solving problems efficiently and calmly. recently i got a queen box spring down two full stairwells and around three Tight corners, by myself. i get stuff done.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
if i'm 'on' - my ineffable magnetism. if i'm off - i'm flying under the radar.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
i like smart people
philosophical conversations
the arts and culture
progressive politics
people with an overall positive outlook
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
are the 6 Secrets to Happily: Science, Sex, Psychology, Culture, Exploration, and Games.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether i've reached the age at which there are finally people my age or younger who are finally 'mature enough' for me to date, and why so many folks over 50 seem so grouchy and cynical
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working on the project of a lifetime, or, taking a much needed break to go look at art or to commune with friend/s ...

but one way or another, always evolving. -
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i am a big softie who can tear up at advertisements, random songs, news stories...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
men: if you ARE the droid i'm looking for - interests (culture!) - politics (liberal!!) - looks (rather slender! non-furry!)

women: if you are looking for new friends who if the fates align might become friends with benefits. or not. either way. yes, i am really bi, and have been my entire adult life. i only date men for LTRs at this point but that doesn't preclude many types of deep friendships with women.


if UR conservative - even 'fiscal conservative' as i think starving grannies / children so plutocrats can have even more piles of dough is uncivilized - please keep going. that goes for libertarians too.

i Am open to people 'outside the edges' of my wishlist, but not the opposite of what i'm looking for. i try hard to reply at least with a nice decline - but if you are an opposite or your profile / message say almost nothing...

OPPOSITES include: current/recent military/police; STOCKY/heavy build/football player body structure, permanent facial hair; no cultural interests; >1.5 hours' drive from boston; <37; anti vaxxer; S/M / trans; more than 1 child <14, any children <12.

someone else is out there for you.