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46 F Quincy, MA

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5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes cats

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My self-summary
Show me your face
I crave
flowers and gardens
open your lips
I crave
the taste of honey
~ Rumi

i am ready. are you ready? really ready? it could be so FUN ... and so peaceful.

i'm kinda wacky, but more straight than most really wacky folks. i'm a little intense, but gentle; i don't bite - unless requested. i work to be kind, try to overlook negative aspects of surroundings and people, but also try not to be holier than thou. i do have strong opinions about things i've spent years contemplating and researching, and i don't use pussyfoot-around 'feminine' style language about my beliefs. But - day after day, few people are as collaborative, flexible about the endless little stuff, respectful, and, Non passive-aggressive. And few folks are as self aware.

people tend to find me fairly fascinating. i get sincerely smiled at a Lot, and a share of puzzled looks. i have an uplifting take on most things, tho i can get really down about the state of humanity. i have an organization that is going to take over the world and bring the New UtopiaTM to america, and i'm looking for ambassadors and board members. also, join our movement!

i like culture. it's what i do. i like people who like culture. and who already participate (watch, read, listen to, or/and create) regularly. i get along with folks who are politically aware. who are very liberal but not libertarian, conspiritorial, or deeply cynical/negative. who are interested in making the world a better place. while i'm in love with aesthetics and beauty, the most important things to me are Far below the surface, and i seek someone similarly swimming in the depths.

about looks /attraction: i have a Limited range of desire. quirky, rather slender (runner/tennis build, not football/ stocky/ daily weight lifter), w/out a permanent hairy face. think: bob dylan, leonard cohen, barack obama, anderson cooper, lance armstrong, david bowie.

i have a human animal/physical body which is imperfect; i expect others to be imperfect too. i don't believe in Belittling my partner's physicality -- Ever. if i go down the 'dating road' with someone - i don't expect them to Remake their physical presentation to something they are opposed to. i believe thinking, deep, evolved and evolving people Yes, Can of course have basic 'chemistry' issues but around details - are more concerned with what's inside than outside. if you are fixated on intimate hair removal, high heels, etc., then we're not a match.

i'd rather not get involved with anyone who drinks pretty much daily and/or gets drunk or "very tight" pretty much a couple times a week or more. or, anyone who has been diagnosed bipolar unless they are in treatment including medication, expect to be for life, and are able to discuss this. i believe in creating win-win situations whenever possible.
What I’m doing with my life
i'm engaged in a design career and taking major steps forward to an art calling.

i'm not engaged in rearing children. mine is adult, independent, out of the nest. i'd prefer to date someone also 'free' tho in the right circumstances, someone w/a child or two, over 15, Could be possible. wanting new kids is not a match.
I’m really good at
philosophizing. satire. conceptual art.
The first things people usually notice about me
if i'm 'on' - my ineffable magnetism. if i'm off - i'm flying under the radar.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
i like
cocktail parties, theatre, unusual performances.
world music, 88.9 WERS.
stephen colbert, smart cars, sushi.
green tea mochi, coconut ice cream, dark chocolate.
black & white movies, robert maplethorpe.
louise bourgeois, andy warhol.
the smell of a woodshop.
dr. who, startrek, skeeball.
dancing. the beach after dark.
The six things I could never do without
are the 6 Secrets to Happily: Science, Sex, Psychology, Culture, Exploration, and Games.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
moving from point a to point b. taking over the world thru comedy.
On a typical Friday night I am
doing art, looking at art, working, dinner with friends, ...

but one way or another, always evolving. -
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i like to sing loudly and dance around the house.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 37–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you tell me something Fresh. spark-lighting. engaging.

you meet the general parameters i'm looking for in interests (culture!) politics (liberal!) and looks (rather slender! no beard!)

you have time in your life for a relationship, and are not an intimacy-phobe. you like spending time alone, but you want a partner too. you value spending time with someone you are dating highly enough to almost always prioritize it Above watching TV, and enough to make time for them in your life at Least a couple nights a week - more often some weeks (gasp!)

i Am open to people 'outside the edges' of my wishlist, but not opposites. opposites include: current/recent military/police; stocky/heavy build, permanent facial hair; no cultural interests, busy 5 or more evenings most weeks; >1.5 hours' drive from boston; in a couple; <35; libertarian, republican, conservative, or traditionally religious; communist/ anarchist /truther /anti vaxxer; S/M lifestyle; more than 1 child <15, any children <12.
Someone Else IS out there who's Right for you.

asking questions to engage with a profile or previous messages & move conversation along, makes you more successful with Any woman. a great idea: not making your opening move to tell someone how Wrong she is about x. it's not an appealing start, unless it's very minor and wrapped in other amusing & positive statements.