You may notice quickly that I am a fairly confident and smiley person.
I want success for myself as an individual. I also want to experience life, to see the world, and to have good people in my life to make great memories with. I want to keep learning, keep educating myself. I am a curious person. I like to have meaningful conversations.
I want to create opportunities for people to enjoy each other, for moments to be made. I like to drink and be merry, to laugh and love, to explore and create.
I'm looking for love, friendship and quality time.
Ultimately I am looking for the Marshall to my Lily! (How I Met Your Mother Fans woooot!) I'd like a committed long-term relationship, but I'm not ready to jump into anything. I'm willing to take it nice and slow, get to know each other and see how things go.
I am looking for "a conversation that doesn't end" with a good & intelligent man, who knows how to have fun and to appreciate the humour in the situation.
I'm looking for someone with similar interests who wants a best friend in a lover and someone to share life's ups and downs with as gracefully as possible.
I value someone who can trust in me and who can communicate well with me. Someone with a lust for life, who wants to stay in as much as go out on the town. Someone that no matter what we do, we have a great time doing it.
Someone who makes me laugh, who is interested in traveling, who makes the best of things in life.
I would appreciate someone who is just as willing to talk philosophy, the latest technology or advances in science as to play video games, add their naughty spin to scrabble or take a roadtrip. I'm interested in someone who can appreciate throwing theme parties (my bday is the day before Halloween!), Someone who appreciates good food, and healthy food, who likes to try new things.
Someone who loves film. Someone who loves music, to dance to, to flip vinyl to, to cruise to. Someone who values people and respects them, showing compassion.
Let's not overwhelm each other with expectations, but let's be honest and get to know each other naturally and at a respectful pace.
I'm INFP looking for another INFP.
I'd be happy to meet more NFs or NTs, esp INTP/INFP/ENFP and INTJs who are open-minded (my best friend is INTJ).
Some quotes I like:
"Not all who wander are lost" ~J. R. R. Tolkien
"...she doesn't wait for inspiration, she acts in the anticipation of it's apparition" ~Steven Pressfield (The War of Art)
"Your thorns are the best part of you" ~Marianne Moore
"It is not that people change, but that you come to know them better as they come to know themselves more" -Unknown, my psych prof?
"Variety is the spice of life" ~Anne of Green Gables
"Be the change you want to see in the world" - Gandhi
"Meep Meep!"-Totem (My cat)
BTW, here is a really great article on "Finding Your Life Partner". I agree with everything this writer says and it is worth reading Part 2 as well!!