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28 Saint Cloud, MN Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:16pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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If there's a trick to writing these things, I haven't discovered it. My guess is that the easiest way to get someone's attention is to have the body of a god and a face that gives people so much joy that they weep. I haven't discovered those, either.

I like thinking about big ideas. My ambitions don't usually match up with my energy level, but it's fun to daydream about how to save the world. There's not enough time in the day for all the books I want to read, all the people I want to reconnect with, or all the Netflix I want to watch. But life is pretty good.

I'm a big ol' geek, which is pretty awesome.

I tend to get along with most people I meet, and hopefully that includes you!
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a supervisor of a group home with aspirations of a doctorate and academic work in Political Science. The future is big and bright.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Trivia. Well, sometimes. I'm really good at getting along with people, at being positive, at learning things and committing them to memory. I'm also not a bad singer.

Things I'm not so good at: being succinct, using words everyone knows, and most video games.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably that I'm a guy?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Dune, The Song of Ice and Fire series by George RR Martin, the Dark Tower series by Stephen King, stuff by Garth Nix, Cassandra Clare, or Philip Pullman. Boy Meets Boy by David Levithan is my favorite whimsical book. Many and more.

I'm less well versed in good TV, but I like funny things and geeky things. I'm not a film nerd according to my film nerd friends, but I definitely am compared to most of the people I know.

For music it's much easier to say what I can't enjoy. I don't like country if it's overly patriotic, I don't like hip-hop if it's just about sex and drugs without clever wordplay, and as much as I try I can't get into screamo.

And as for food, I'm bland: Pepperoni pizza, bagel with cream cheese, vanilla ice cream. I'm willing to branch out in theory, I just... don't.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) The Internet.

2) My own little space somewhere.

3) Friends. Sometimes you just have to go for a walk in the woods at 2am.

4) Sugar; or, more realistically, high-fructose corn syrup. I wouldn't be sad if this proved untrue.

5) A good story. TV, book, movie, video game... a good story is a vacation to me.

6) Oxygen, but only in the right proportions.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life. Why people do the things they do. The universe, the future. Daydreaming. The world. Politics and government. Whatever interesting thing is being presented to me. Making complete sentences.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I may be hanging out with friends, but I might also be taking up my sword, donning my mask, and saving the world from the forces of chaos and destruction.

In a perfect world that would be completely true. Instead I'm usually saving the world (or worlds) on Xbox or my computer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Once, back in the days of Myspace, I wrote a lengthy blog post about my fury over a banana which went straight from green to brown.

I still hate that banana.
You should message me if
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If I've intrigued you, piqued your interest, made you laugh, or made your jaw drop for some reason.

I kind of use "looking at a profile a couple times" as my main way of saying hi. If I've looked at your profile a couple times and you've looked at mine back, I assume you're not interested in saying hi. One day I'll get over it and say hi first, but it may take me a bit to get past the idea in my head that "He's too cool to be interested."