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37 • Somerville, MA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Mar 29
- 5′ 5″ (1.65m)
- Body type
- Judaism, and somewhat serious about it
- Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Rather not say
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
I am a foodie, but that doesn't mean I'm a snooty gourmet. I love everything about food, from growing or shopping for it to cooking it and feeding people, to, of course, eating. Eating humanely and sustainably is important to me. I get my meat, eggs, and vegetables from local farms. I bake a (locally) famous chocolate chip banana cake, and a ginger fig jam-topped baked brie that's to die for. Breakfast is my specialty, and you'll enjoy it if you like some eggs with your cheese, and everything cooked in bacon grease.
I believe that the meaning of life is to love and to learn, and that you should never stop doing either. I believe in the essential beauty and goodness of the world, and in every individual's responsibility to maintain that goodness and repair that which has gone bad. I also believe in using proper grammar, and being able - but not necessarily required - to use proper manners. And I fully believe, and have evidence to support the fact, that a life without horses in it is a life with a lot less joy. My life, anyway. (I've been riding since I was 9, and got my instructor's license last year.)
I'm happily married and utterly committed to my husband. We are polyamorous, and both of us have other partners. Currently, mine are all men, and I miss having sex with girls. Odds of my picking up a new male partner are low - I'm really on here looking for women these days. Regardless of their sex, I don't have sex with people I'm not at least interested in maintaining a friendship with, so if you're looking for someone who's just easy, move along.
I run my own business, work part time for another, just bought a new house, and just had a baby, so I'm a bit low on free time and functioning neurons, but that doesn't stop me from wishing I had a girlfriend.
I am fast on my feet, hungry, and seeking.
I'm marketing consultant, but not the evil kind who's always trying to sell you shit by telling you pretty lies. I work for mission-driven agencies, green companies, and other businesses with consciences.
I'm plotting trips to Iceland to eat hakarl, ride the ponies, sit in the sulfur baths, and join in the winter festivals; and to Nepal to trek to Everest base camp. After that, Africa? I'd love to step foot on all of the continents. But for now, I'm a new mom, too broke to travel, and enjoying being here with my community, which is wonderful.
I'm loving lots, learning lots, asking questions, and trying to absorb all the wisdom I can. I'm balancing dreams and goals with budgets and schedules. I'm wondering: What are you doing with *your* life?
The Princess Bride, The Dangerous Lives of Altar Boys, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Edward Scissorhands, Total Recall, The Lion King, Top Gun, Pulp Fiction, Dirty Dancing, Walk the Line, I Am Legend, Kissing Jessica Stein, WALL-E, Blue Valentine, Winter's Bone, Almost Famous, Romeo and Juliet (the Claire Danes/Leo DiCaprio version), Never After.
Local folkies like Jake Armerding, Kris Delmhorst, Mark Erelli, Lori McKenna, etc. Ani DiFranco, Johnnie Cash, Christopher Williams (before his music became overtly religious), REM, Suzanne Vega, Emmylou Harris, Dolly Parton, Dar Williams, Madonna, Moxy Fruvous, just about anything '80s, Bela Fleck, Ben Sollee, The Wailing Jennys, Crooked Still, other new bluegreass.
French fries. Even chocolate is a distant 2nd. Cheeeeese, the stinkier the better. Baby back ribs. Fresh veggies from the farm. Homemade spaghetti sauce with farm tomatoes and farm beef. Hummus. Bacon. Bread. Eggs. Crab rangoon. Spicy hamachi maki.
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