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41 Victoria, British Columbia, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 1
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Taking a break from this site - seems to be filled with scammers and people not interested in finding a meaningful relationship. Wish you all a great deal of luck. I may be back, or may just pull the profile all together.

I'm from Arizona, attended college at an old liberal arts school in Western Massachusetts, worked in Arizona for two different long stints, enjoyed a year in Seattle and this time around moved to Victoria from the Boston area July 2014.

I get out at least daily to bike, boat or whatever. In Boston I rowed three times a week, looking to start that here, and am an avid horse rider. The rest of my trail activity is pedal-powered - I love zipping around this city and the fantastic regional bike trails

Adore exploring both in and out of the city. I enjoy festivals and farmers markets, and love live music (no rap, no metal, no dj/techno (which isn't even live, right?)). I'm a fan of the performing arts, museums and visiting natural and historical sites on day/weekend trips. Also an avid cook and love all types of travel (local, regional, international by car, plane, train or boat - camping all the way up to a five star hotel).

I can be whimsical, practical, passionate about many things, with a dose of out of the box approach - I am cerebral and intuitive...and appreciate the cerebral/whimsy/passionate/out of the box counterpart.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm passionate about sustainability work in the field. Currently handling the sustainability work for a new town. As cliche as it may sound, what I'm doing with my life is about making an impact on the world. I love what I do and enjoy the adventure that each day brings.

Update: 12:45 am 9/29/2013
On the ferry from Newfoundland after a week of traveling this incredible, rugged province solo. Had an amazing time, but would love to find a partner for some of these adventures!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the possibilities _ dreaming - connecting dots to solve problems or accomplish new opportunities.
Creative cooking (using recipes as a guide).
Figuring things out and calling it like I see it.
Chocolate chip cookies - No, seriously, you have no idea.
Finding and appreciating kindred spirits.
High level planning, crisis management and spontaneous exploration.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height, my deep blue sparkling smile - it lights up my whole face, but I can be a little reserved in the beginning. Extroverts think I'm an introvert, introverts swear I'm an extrovert and demand to see my Myers Briggs. In a professional setting I'm and introverted extrovert and in a social setting I'm and extroverted introvert.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I can be quite bookish - $64 Tomato, the entire Gabaldon series, Cadillac Desert, Pride and Prejudice, Goat Song, The Help, Walter Stegman, My Antonia, Barbara Kingsolver, The Valley of Horses, the Gabaldon series...I guess you could say eclectic. Enjoy loading tons of books on my tablet for a trip....but just can't seem to give up REAL books and have long since run out of bookshelf space at both work and home.

Movies - again eclectic - Shawshank Redemtion, Avatar, The Legend of Bagger Vance, The Grand Budapest Hotel, Salmon Fishing in Yemen, The Man From Snowy River, Chick flicks, Dramas, Historical Fiction, Food films. Have been known to watch the Lethal Weapons series and love a good, "come from behind" underdog wins sports movie, etc.....

NPR - (That's CBC radio here in Canada) Love a good driveway moment!!!

I keep up with news and current events. Actually, I'm kind of a news junkie. I read the news pretty much every day and am politically aware but not politically active (I don't get into campaigns or party activities or anything like that).

I appreciate local, organic, sustainably produced food. It is a big part of my work in sustainability and I enjoy hunting for the excellent local suppliers growing my own when possible and doing some foraging. I'm particular about where I eat -- chef-owned restaurants are a favorite, as well as the local dive gems. Any place that takes good food seriously and makes their menu their own....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Awesome days that unfold into lifelong memories
Adventures - Exploring
Good friends - good conversations
Mountain vistas and incredible sunsets
Wild water -lakes,streams, rivers and oceans
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Problem solving, answering "why" questions, pondering places to explore or new recipes to cook. Learning new things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends - Its been busy at work - so usually home relaxing -sipping a glass of wine, reading, watching a movie or taking a walk.....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
We'll chat about this later?
OK - I do like good sex, why not be open about it? But, I don't sleep around. Find I most enjoy it when there's a connection or chemistry, so one night stands are rarely worth it.
I like to sing during road trips, and sometimes in the shower.
How's that for opposite ends of the spectrum?

The other stuff - you'll have to figure out later....
You should message me if
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I cancelled my A-list account, certainly not worth the money. So, I won't see if you "like" me. Feel free to reach out instead.

You are passionate about something in your life - training for a race or challenge, the work you do....I'm realizing that I'm best matched with someone who's passion can match my own.

I'd love to hear from you if you are interested in chatting, a fun activity partner, seeing what's possible in this wide-wide world, or if anything I wrote resonates with you. Or.....

Don't bother reaching out if you haven't bothered to fill out your profile or provide a photo. Also, not interested in hearing from 20-somethings (sorry - I like you, but I've also managed you in a professional setting, and appreciate the perspective of a man close to my age or older than me). Really - you won't sway me on either of the two points and you will not receive a response from me.