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40 F Victoria, British Columbia, CA

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Update 7/1/2014: Moving to Victoria, BC for a new job opportunity. Should officially be there mid-July.

Update 06/2014: Same as below - but currently find myself in Arizona helping my mother for an unspecified amount of time. I'm always up for connecting with interesting, like-minded people for good conversation, live music, activities and hanging out. This is an unusual time in my life, I've had some fantastic conversations with the wide breadth of people I've met over the past year with some exciting outcomes. You never know where something will lead, but a rich conversation is always of value.

Update 02/2014: I find myself in transition and will be moving around quite a bit over the next 2-6 months. This means I'll have a base of operations in the Boston area, but otherwise I'll be traveling in different areas of the country. Depending on the area I'll be traveling with a bicycle, stand up paddle board (SUP), yoga mat and TRX set. Feel free to reach out with a hello, if I'm in your area (which most likely means I've shown up in your quick match) and we have compatible interests then perhaps we can meet for a drink, hike, good conversation, bike ride or other activity. Good luck on this great journey everyone!

I'm from Arizona - moved to the Boston area in 2011. Have never dug into the Diamondbacks (they weren't around in my formative years), am ok with the Red Sox.

I get out at least daily to bike, boat or whatever. Row three mornings a week, and am an avid horse rider. The rest of my trail activity is pedal-powered - I love zipping around this city.

Adore exploring both in and out of the city. I enjoy festivals and farmers markets, and love live music (no rap, no metal, no dj/techno (which isn't even live, right?)). I'm a fan of the performing arts, museums and visiting natural and historical sites on day/weekend trips. Also an avid cook.

I can be nerdy, whimsical, practical, passionate about many things, with a dose of out of the box approach...and appreciate the nerdy/geeky/whimsy/passionate/out of the box counterpart.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm passionate about sustainability work in the field. As cliche as it may sound, what I'm doing with my life is about making an impact on the world. I love what I do and enjoy the adventure that each day brings.

Update 6/2014
Currently exploring some personal and professional projects, and new ventures. These are exciting times!

Update: 12:45 am 9/29/2013
On the ferry from Newfoundland after a week of traveling this incredible, rugged province solo. Had an amazing time, but would love to find a partner for some of these adventures!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Capturing peoples' attention (a friend made me say this)
Seeing the possibilities _ dreaming - connecting dots to solve problems or accomplish new opportunities.
Creative cooking (using recipes as a guide)
Figuring things out and calling it like I see it
Chocolate chip cookies. No, seriously, you have no idea.
Inspiring people (a friend made me write this too!)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height, my deep blue sparkling smile - it lights up my whole face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am quite bookish - $64 Tomato, the entire Gabaldon series, Cadillac Desert, Pride and Prejudice, Goat Song, The Help, Walter Stegman, My Antonia, Barbara Kingsolver, The Valley of Horses, the Gabaldon series...I guess you could say eclectic. Enjoy loading tons of books on my tablet for a trip....but just can't seem to give up REAL books and have long since run out of bookshelf space at both work and home.

Movies - again eclectic - Shawshank Redemtion, Avatar, The Legend of Bagger Vance, saw the new Muppets movie, enjoyed the Adventures of Tin Tin, Chick flicks, Food films, Have been known to watch the Lethal Weapons series, A good, "come from behind" underdog wins sports movie, etc.....

npr!!! Love a good driveway moment.

I keep up with news and current events. Actually, I'm kind of a news junkie. I read the news pretty much every day and am politically aware but not politically active (I don't get into campaigns or party activities or anything like that).

I appreciate local, organic, sustainably produced food. It is a big part of my work in sustainability and I enjoy hunting for the excellent local suppliers. I'm particular about where I eat -- chef-owned restaurants are a favorite, as well as the dive gems.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Awesome days that unfold into lifelong memories
Adventures - Exploring
Good friends
Mountain vistas and incredible sunsets
Wild water -lakes,streams, rivers and oceans
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Problem solving, answering "why" questions, pondering places to explore or new recipes to cook. Learning new things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends - Its been busy at work - so usually home relaxing -sipping a glass of wine, reading, watching a movie or taking a walk.....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
We'll chat about this later?
OK - I do like good sex, why ignore it? But, I don't sleep around.
I like to sing during road trips, and sometimes in the shower.
How's that for opposite ends of the spectrum?
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 34–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm not interested in hearing from 20-somethings (sorry - I've managed them in a professional setting, and appreciate the perspective of a man close to or older than me).

You are passionate about something in your life - training for a race or challenge, the work you do....I'm realizing that I'm best matched with someone who's passion can match my own.

I'd love to hear from you if you are interested in chatting, a fun activity partner, seeing what's possible in this wide-wide world, or if anything I wrote resonates with you? Or.....