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33 Vancouver, British Columbia, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 12
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Open relationship
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm a recovering gypsy, working on staying still.

I seem to be endlessly in school. But I love it, so that's okay.

I've never been one for monogamy, and happily find myself in an open relationship with the fabulous padraigmac.

I've worked & traveled my way around the world, but I am always happy to come back to coastal BC.

I am here, there, and everywhere
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
writing and drawing and scheming. School.

Exploring and figuring out how to make a living doing the things I love to do. Finding a good work/life balance (so trite, but very true). Trying to become a better person, a better artist, a better and more conscientious citizen of the world... (part of me can't believe i just typed that... in fact that entire paragraph almost makes me want to vomit at myself). School.

making stuff. experimenting. gardening. School.

buying shoes and dresses I can't afford. School.

selling things I don't need to pay for the shoes I can't afford.

Oh, and.... Going to school. Have you ever thought about what a strange word that is? School. Strange.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening to and understanding marine weather forecasts, taking pretty photographs, taking not-so-pretty, but starkly interesting and dramatic photographs, trying to telemark, trying to surf, and procrastinating. Vegan baking (even though i'm not vegan). non-vegan baking. cooking. setting up tarps. taking down tarps. laughing at myself. always keeping myself (and usually others around me) entertained. Explaining how tides and currents work. Making musical instruments out of bull kelp. keeping people happy in torrential downpours while huddling under a tarp. soldering. writing in abbreviated, non-capitalized sentences. And essays. I sure can write me a mean essay.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
allegedly I have beautiful eyes, a lovely smile, and fabulous tattoos

or that my hands are often covered in india ink

or that if i'm wearing heels, odds are i'm taller than you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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these lists are impossible! these things are constantly changing as i get exposed to new things- but here's an attempt....

Louis de Bernieres. Ann-Marie MacDonald. Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Tom Robbins- although not as much anymore. Neil Gaiman. Opening Up has recently replaced The Ethical Slut on the bookshelf. Chomsky. Dyer. The Walrus is usually a good read. The economist if I feel like i need to catch up on worldly matters. (print media is important to me). I haven't been recreationally reading a lot lately, mostly due to school reading, which is enjoyable but in a different way. School readin' right now mostly consists of: Butler, Rogoff, Trinh Min-ha, Deleuze, Spivak, etc etc etc. Right now i'm taking a (manditory) first year english course that I've somehow avoided thus far in my 6 year post-secondary career, so i'm reading lots of poetry. I haven't read any poetry in about 12 years- so it's kind of refreshing.

motorcycle diaries (just can't get rid of that schoolgirl crush on Che). city of god. amelie. Also anything by Wes Anderson, or Bill Murray's more recent stuff especially Broken Flowers. I heart Huckabees. Amoros Perros, Babel. Dimache a Kigali- because it made me cry for half an hour. Big Fish. Coffee and Cigarettes. Documentaries in general. Little Miss Sunshine. Crash. Most things by Guy Richie (but definitely not all..). Anything with Dame Judi Dench (how can you not love her? She's a Dame!). Coco avant Chanel. Pan's Labyrinth. Vicky Christina Barcelona. Soderbergs Che biopic. I just watched Out of Africa, and now want to travel back in time due to my crush on 1985 Robert Redford. Helvetica. Objectified.

my musical taste is too eclectic to get into- but if you've never heard of Ali Farka Toure, Talib Kweli, or Corb Lund you should go look them up. Lately while working in the studio its been an odd mix of mostly conscientious rap and the Cure.

and... artists:
Simon Starling, Egon Schiele, Robert Rauschenberg, Bill Reid, Rene Lalique, Charles Rennie Mackintosh, Brian Jungen, Gijs Bakker, E.J. Hughes, Gerd Rothman, Nick Bantock, Heidi Schwegler.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
hmmm... I don't know about never do without- that's a bit extreme. However to quote Maria: These are a few of my favourite things-

Coffee in the mornings (and the rest of the day too...)
Friends & love
Great food
Hijinxs (both of the outdoors & urban types)
Some form of creative expression
Intellectually stimulating conversation
Rodger (my bicycle)
Nib pens
Bacon (i used to be vegetarian... bacon was my downfall)

(i know thats more than 6.. really I could, and have, done without most if not all of these things for varying amounts of time... but my life is better with them- and that's what the question is all about really, isn't it?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the epic never-ending battle of unicorn vs narwhal.

My next, most beautiful tattoo. How I would draw something I happen to be observing. Who would win in a fight between a great white shark and a polar bear. Music. Art. People I love. What I should do when I finish school. If I should keep going to school. How fucking amazingly lucky I am to have electricity, running water, an education, health care, a computer, and a roof over my head (and how ironic it is that i seem to dislike my government a lot more than people I've met in other countries who don't have these luxuries).

how many great artists were driven to great heights by accidentally ingesting lead based paint, or other poisonous material that happened to be laying around in their studio.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
therefore I am...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I own a 3-piece matched luggage set. It's not like dior or something ridiculous like that, and in fact i got it (all three pieces) at a thrift store in Trail, BC for $10. It's from the 70's (like my camera), in mint condition, and makes me very happy.
You should message me if
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you are a girl interested in dating me and my boyfriend.

you are a girl/guy interested in dating me.

you can spell entire words and form complete sentences. Although a lack of capitalization doesn't seem to bother me. Strange.

you're down with non-monogamy. I ain't no one trick pony.