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bear412

55 / M / straight / Single

Streamwood, Illinois

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I am intelligent, sorta?, caring and kind, and fun to be with.

My Self-Summary

Humm...lets see,..what I like is skiing downhill the last run of the day as a new snowfall is just begining...long motorcycle rides...driving my miata with the top down...boating...sitting on a pier with my feet hanging in a glass like summer lake...sunrises..sunsets (cant get enough of those)...watching my children sleep..long hot showers..adventerous vacations...pulling up a beach chair in the Mexican surf right where the waves are breaking.camping while listening to the fire burn...guitar music..water parks..long walks in the desert..long hikes in the moutains...and these are just a few of my favorite things..
Since we are being totaly honest here, I must tell you,..I talk in my sleep..been told I snore sometimes...when I come home from work and take my shoes off my feet smell, but I promise to wash right away.I dont have as much hair as I use to, but enough to run yr finger through. I'm a bluejean sorta guy, but if you dress me up and take me out I shine like a new penny and dont look half bad. I am told I will talk to anyone, anytime, anywhere,..but I will try not to embarrass you on purpose. I love life and living and if you feel the same feel free to give me a call. My children are the light of my life, but now is the time for me. I love animals (they have endering qualities dont you think?)like my chocolate lab. So...if you think you can put up with me after what I have said..you must truely be the one for me. I make a great friend if you need one. I have two strong arms to hold you and two good ears to listen.Someone who is playful, friendly, spirtual, caring, generous, loving and human. If you want someone to lean on I'm here for you, but also strong enough to be able to handle all of life trials alone if need be. I would like to meet someone who wants to get the most out of life.

What I’m doing with my life

Trying to make the best of time off in a sparadic economy...Love to go up northern wisconsin for getaways!

I’m really good at

making people feel comfortable...and laugh a little..

The first things people usually notice about me

humm? you tell me?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

so many..lets see..the Stand...James Redfeild books....way of the peaceful warrior ...etc..

The six things I could never do without

whipped cream in coffee
dragging my chocolate lab around< I must like it I keep doing it?>
time to meditate
motorcyles and rag tops
hot showers
sunny days

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the meaning of life

On a typical Friday night I am

calling my friends trying to find some good music somewhere...Fitzgeralds in Berwyn is a great place

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

oh no....not here

You should message me if

your a human being who cares