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bearcathustle

26 M Toronto, Ontario, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:31pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey I'm Stew.

Uhmm,
I'm really cool you should get to know me.

I live with my ex and best friend (EDIT: for clarity that's referring to the same person!), and we have 4 awesome cats.

I play and write music, but I'm a lifelong scatterbrain and never very focused.

I smoke (actually, vape) a fair amount of weed but I don't really drink and I'm not really a bar guy, I have trouble meeting people because I'm so quiet and shy.

I like to think my empathy and strategic mind are my strongest points. I'm open to a fault, I totally missed out on high school so I developed socially at a different pace from most people my age. It's a double edged sword, there's positive and negative aspects to having dodged the mind-fuck that is modern adolescence.

Upon reflection, though, my humor is actually probably my best DATING TRAIT. I'm also treating this profile like a resume, I'm sorry idk how to people.

tl;dr awkward white goofy stoner musician cat guy
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
¯\(º_o)/¯

Just trying to be happy and do good. Mostly wasting time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing guitar and writing songs.
^Haha that's a lie but I'm decent.

Cats.

Jeff Winger style inspirational speeches.

I'm an MG2 in CS:GO so you know that's kind of a big deal*

*it's not and I'm kidding
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I legitimately have no idea and would be fascinated to know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
IDK,
I'm not a huge reader. I really like Kurt Vonnegut and I really like Miyamoto Musashi.

Just ask?

As for music, I love Elliott Smith, Neutral Milk Hotel, Iron and Wine, Against Me, Sigur Ros, Daft Punk, Boards of Canada, Justice, The Glitch Mob. I like a whole fuckin' bunch of stuff but my main things are like folk punk, folk, indie and electronica. I listen to a decent amount of classical too (baroque preferably).

I like good movies. I hate making lists.

Avatar: The Last Airbender is a fantastic show and it pretty much just makes me cry tears of joy, subsequently the legend of korra is really good too.

I like all your other standard shows otherwise, you know, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad (anyone who didn't like Breaking Bad confuses me),
most of the things on 'the television' are pretty terrible. Don't talk to me if you like Big Bang Theory (just kidding you can talk to me I'm lonely and I won't be a dick about your bad taste).

I'm a PC gamer, I really like grand strategy games and go through periods where I spend a lot of time playing those, probably too much. I like sims and slow games with lots of depth.

I used to play a lot of first person shooters, a lot of DayZ,
I'm competent in cs:go,
I suck at mobas and struggle with starcraft2 but can hold my own to a degree.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
¯\(º_o)/¯

I try not to attach myself too much to anything too material, I have my daily comforts but if push came to shove I could drop all of them. I'm partial to the thought that anything you own that you can't carry on your back in turn owns you.

That being said, I'd like to always have a way to make music, and I've never in my life not had a cat to keep me company.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The ethics of food,
The sustainability of our lifestyle,
Sex, Gender, Love,
Patriarchy, Feminism,
Freedom, Censorship,
Cats,
Beards,
Strategy,
Butts,
Weapons, War, Peace and Revolution,
Cats.

Actually just spend most of my time singing songs and shit in my head though.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Honestly work a closing shift most Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've had a long history of social anxiety and some depression. I'm definitely not very good at this whole 'adulthood' thing.

That's not really that private though, but like, maybe it makes me easier to get. *shrugs*
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you think I'm cool obviously,
if you wanna talk to someone who's just gonna be pretty genuine and not an asshole.

IDK, whatever, any reason you've got is good enough I'm sure.