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bearcathustle

27 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:23am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Thin
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey I'm Stew.

Uhmm,
I'm really cool you should get to know me.

I play and write music, I'm a lifelong scatterbrain and never very focused. I live with 4 other people, 5 cats and a giant dog in a 2 bedroom apartment.

I smoke (actually, vape) a fair amount of weed but I don't really drink (as in I get drunk ez) and I'm not really a bar guy (more accurately I don't have anyone to go to bars with and don't know where to go. Also I get really overwhelmed in bars and don't know what to order, it's probably cute if you're into me. Annoying if you aren't), I have trouble meeting people because I'm shy I guess, and I don't really know how to go about it.

My humor is actually probably my best DATING TRAIT. I'm ridiculously silly and punny when I loosen up, when I first meet people I can be reserved though but I'm still pretty fuckin' clever all the time. I'm working on being less shy, less reserved and stuff. I'm confident and I like who I am I just gotta get used to the idea that other people do too.

tl;dr awkward goofy stoner musician cat guy
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
¯\(º_o)/¯

Just trying to be happy and do good.

Right now it feels like I drift from one interest to the next, I'm pretty unsure what I'm doing if I'm honest.

Here's some of my music (it's like a collection of rough drafts)
https://soundcloud.com/nosisthebearcat
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing guitar and writing songs.
^Haha that's a lie but I'm decent.

Cats.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I legitimately have no idea and would be fascinated to know.

Apparently I'm better looking in person.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I really like Kurt Vonnegut and I really like Miyamoto Musashi.

As for music, I love Elliott Smith, Neutral Milk Hotel, Iron and Wine, Against Me, Sigur Ros, Daft Punk, Boards of Canada, Justice, The Glitch Mob. I like a whole fuckin' bunch of stuff but my main things are like folk punk, folk, indie and electronica.

I like good movies. I hate making lists.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
¯\(º_o)/¯

I try not to attach myself too much to anything too material, I have my daily comforts but if push came to shove I could drop all of them. I'm partial to the thought that anything you own that you can't carry on your back in turn owns you.

That being said, I'd like to always have a way to make music, and I've never in my life not had a cat to keep me company.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The ethics of food,
The sustainability of our lifestyle,
Sex, Gender, Love,
Patriarchy, Feminism,
Freedom, Censorship,
Cats,
Beards,
Strategy,
Butts,
Weapons, War, Peace and Revolution,
Cats.

Actually just spend most of my time singing songs and shit in my head though.

Or kinda throwing myself into whatever random thing I'm doing at the time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably wandering around alone on my bike somewhere downtown until i get bored / tired and go home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've had a long history of social anxiety and depression. I'm definitely not very good at this whole 'adulthood' thing, but I manage.

That's not really that private though, but like, maybe it makes me easier to understand. *shrugs*
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you think I'm cool obviously,

IDK, whatever, any reason you've got is good enough I'm sure.

couple things:
I hate this profile,
and,
I don't have a cell phone. If you wanna hang out, that's rad, please don't be weirded out when I tell you I don't have a cell phone. This doesn't make meeting people impossible (at least it shouldn't).

Honestly, I'm a big weird social pariah. I rarely talk to people and I keep to myself but that doesn't mean it's how I always want to be. I basically have one good friend who I live with, but they go outside even less than me. I barely exist, I don't socialize and make my presence known and I wander around on my bike at night.

Lately I've taken to feeding racoons. Racoons are awesome, I will befriend all the racoons in the city and together we will rule the night. Who needs humans.