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bearrain4u

49 / M / Straight / Single

Seattle, Washington

His Details

Last Online
Jun 13
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English, German (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Looking for a woman with which to be active, healthy and well-sated.

I'm pretty damn funny; and I smile a lot. But when stuff gets real, I'm very solid.

My perfect day would be a long cycling ride through some beautiful countryside, lunch with a bottle of rose', a nice long nap with someone soft next to me, and then making a great dinner. Rinse, repeat.

My work is varied and interesting. I've got lots of responsibility, but it will always be a priority for me to make time for my family, my friends, my passions, and my relationship. I have a 17 year old step-daughter. I get to spend one or two nights a week with her; she is also going away to college next year.

And I have an amazing network of friends, in Seattle and beyond, who I travel, ski and go to France with.

I cook and I go out to eat. A lot.

I've take up road cycling this year and am pretty serious. Also mix up with yoga 2 to 3 times aweek.

I like to read lot of stuff, both fiction and non-fiction. Right now I'm trying to finish Les Miserables before the film comes out. My kindle says I'm 72% of the way there.

I've been exploring Buddhist philosophy and meditation for a couple of years. So there's that. I'll try not to bore you with it. But if you wanted to come along, that would be cool.

You don’t have to tell a good joke but it would be great if you appreciated one. And you don’t have to be the life of the party but you do need to want to be at the party every now and then. I love taking care of people but I also need to be with someone who can take care of themselves. I’d like a partner who is independent minded, passionate, and compassionate, who has learned a bit about themselves and a bit about the world, and who can appreciate the best parts of me and forgive the rest.

And I'm not as serious as this is coming off. And I grew a beard. So I should probably put a picture up of that!
What I’m doing with my life
I do these things:
take care of my daughter.
make sure by business works.
cycle, yoga, cycle, cycle, yoga, rest.
great food. ok. a lot of food.
some golf.
I’m really good at
- knowing where to eat.
- taking care of my people.
- making people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
They notice my smile. I'm always smiling.
Then they notice my dark sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Sometimes a Great Notion; Freedom; The Peoples Act of Love; the Magus;
Movies: Godfather; Wings of Desire; Office Space
Music: Currently Ryan Adams/Wilco/Fleet Foxes/BonIver; people with beards
Food: Dot's Delicatessen, The Nation of France; High Brow and Low Brow: Commanders Palace in New Orleans; any Ethan Stowell; Monsoon; Matt's in the Market; Revel; Harvest Vine; Cafe Besalu.
Shows: Madmen, Breaking Bad, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Louie, The League, Weeds, Girls.
The six things I could never do without
My stepdaughter
My yoga practice.
Hope.
Everything else I can handle.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How other people think
How I think and act
Politics
How I can get my hamstrings looser.
Oh, and sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Do Yoga.
Make food.
Open Wine.
Consume.
Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've answered 4000 questions. For gods sake, just do the comparison.

But I do know more about birds than most anybody you'll meet.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You are very smart and you are funny.
Like to try interesting foods.
You bring passion to the things you care about it.