CURRENTLY REWRITING THIS PROFILE.
I'm a bisexual poly girl living with my boyfriend IDaneel

I'm primarly looking for penpals and language exchange right now.

I have another boy i'm inlove with besides Daneel, and a few friends with benefits, so I'm not really looking for anyone at the moment, but I could consider dating a bisexual person, if they're willing to meet Daneel also. Our dream is to find someone we could both fall inlove with, but we couldn't find such a person yet.
Besides that, I'm tired of heterosexual-homophobic men, so please stay away from me.

I've added a journal post about my current relationship status and other stuff.
You can read it here:

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/beatricegasti/journal/5604189344057015599/SEX,-LOVE-AND-RELATIONSHIPS

please keep in mind that i'm pennyless at the moment, so I can't afford traveling to your place to get to know you. But we have plenty of space and we can host. :)

we're currently working on our couchuring profile right now. i'll let you know when we'll be ready to host complete strangers.

I used to live and study in Venice, Italy.
I finally moved in IDaneel 's home since june 2010 and we're happily building our future together.
I' m still studying and Working from home(sometimes).
I study Japanese language and culture at the Ca' Foscari 's University.
I study Japanese language and culture, not MANGA language and culture. There's a HUGE difference!
Please otakus, don't take me for your dream girl just because i read a few manga. I'm not a real otaku, i'm just otaku-friendly.
same for nerds: just because i undertand xkcd jokes it doesn't mean i am all that brainy. really!

IN THE FUTURE:
I'd like to write and draw webcomics on my own, but not manga. I got tired of them since my colleagues are obsessed by low quality yaoi... (UGH!) and i think a western person that think to be able to draw mangas like japanese authors is just ridiculous.

I fantasize about becoming a reporter or a yoga tantra teacher, and a "nipponist" : an Expert in Japanese culture.

But I'll most likely end up becoming an anthropologist and travelling around the world, which sounds equally fine to me.
My greatest dream is to travel a lot and finally go to Australia , living in a cute earthship with a view on Sydney ' s Harbour and researching among the last remaining aboriginal people in the middle of the Australian Desert.

The other thing i'm doing in my life is experiencing my sexuality in all of its aspects:
(I can finally say I had sex with women, i had 3somes and 4somes, and i'm not ashamed of it. I would repeat the experience, if I found people that was really worth it.)
I am slowly freeing myself from the hypocricy and bigotism that distinguish Italy in all Europe (we live near the Vatican State, so it's parlty its influence's fault).
I'm removing each chain, each bound day by day, constantly questioning myself, my beliefs, my feelings, and my real needs.)
** note: THIS DOESN'T MEAN I'M JUST THE LITTLE SLUTTY ITALIAN GIRL YOU'VE WAITED TO PLAY WITH. AND IT DOESN'T MEAN I'M ABOUT TO FUCK OR SHOW MY ASS TO EVERYONE THAT WILL CONTACT ME HERE. ;) **
As i said, I'm only interested in deep, loving, respectful, involved relationships.
The whole fuckbuddy thing simply doesn't apply to me anymore. Everytime I meet someone i like, I sooner or later fall inlove with them, and they either freak out because they just but wanted to have fun , or they love me back but they automatically become jealous and possessive. If you're one o these 2 kinds, please stay away from me or we'll end up hurting each other.

I'm a “love me or hate me” type.

My point of view: i'm really good at being lazy and procrastinate stuff, forgetting important things and being incredibly goofy. i can write and draw quite well, i am creative but absent-minded, enthusiastic and humorous, my curiosity gives me troubles sometimes.. i am good with animals, i love nature -except for mosquitoes! aw, but i try not to kill them anyways...
I ' m also good at making other people's lives complicated, hope in a good way :)
Friends point of view: I was said I can draw, paint, cook and love people well!!
Ah! and my cats purr when i sing them lullabies, so either i have a talent for that or they love me too much and just can't judge my terrible voice.

It' s very rare to see me without my brainy look: my glasses and my chignon.
I' m left handed.
I' m small.
I eat a lot for being so small.
My expression varies according to what i'm drawing :P
I always blush, i'm shy in person.
I'm pale and I like it that way. I hate tanning (but i like sleeping under the sun like a lazy cat).
They also said my smile is beautiful.

People can't tell where I'm from because i don't really have a regional accent, which is very uncommon in Italy.
I I've developed my own talk because I traveled a lot in the past few years.

I may seem mute or authistic sometimes, i'm very quiet at first (i'm not joking).
When i feel at ease, I start to talk (loud and quickly, they say) and I never stop.
I' m lunatic.I change my mind so often you could suspect me to have a multiple-personality syndrome.
I have lots of freckles all over my body.

I have an insane affection for all cats : that means if a cat appears, even if we were talking about the end of the World or we were having sex, i would get close them and pet them for hours, making a childish funny voice, forgetting about anything else (including you). sorry, humans! You just can't compete to their superiority...

I know this list is a neverending pain in the ass for you. I stopped updating it. I will update my other accounts instead, so this section will stop growing.
I'm not only obsessed with oriental stuff. Everything that has to do with nature, technologies, science, arts, painting especially, comics, fantasy and rpgs, psychologies, culture jamming, maths and philosophy catches my attention. I'm a true eclectic, meaning i am curious about everything, but i rarely go deep into a topic. I'm the typical wikipedia reader, take it or leave it.

BOOKS:
(january 2012:currently reading sex at dawn and it's really interesting!)
I have this terrible habit: I keep buying and starting books i never finish. June 2011: I have started to read something like 10-15 books and i still have to finish all of them...i choose what to read depending on my mood. both fiction and non fiction are welcome, if the subjects triggers me.
Pain can be a real annoying distraction, so reading has become a bit more difficult in the last months, but i fight to keep doing what i love.

http://www.anobii.com/lazykat/books

I' ve been reading 3 books recently: after dark by Haruki Murakami(inished) , The Third Eye by Tuesday Lobsang Rampa (finished and gave to a friend as a birthday present)and MUSASHI by Eiji Yoshikawa (still have to finish it).
I was trying to translate The Ethical Slut, a book about open relationships. It's my Bible! Italian (UNOFFICIALLY) translation is needed and i hope i'll do it one ay..

Novels and poetry: everything by Stefano Benni and Daniel Pennac,Especially "Comme un romance" and "the eye of the wolf".
E.T.A. Hoffmann, Amélie Nothomb , Nazim Hikmeth , Neruda, Baudelaire, Goethe, Byron, Auden, Majakowskij etc.
i also like Richard Adams, James Herriot, The Music is Over by Ross David Burke, Isabel Allende, Ray Bradbury, Le Petit Prince, James Herriott, Guillaime Apollinaire,"L'élégance du hérisson",Richard Adams,all Lovecraft and E.A. Poe stuff, Dragonlance saga "The Legend of Huma and "Kaz the Minotaur", "Rikki Tikki Tavi" by Rudyard kipling, Felix Salten, Bill Bryson's "down under" ,everything by Schopenauer, Heidegger, Gilles Deleuze and Felix Guattari, Culture Jam by Kalle Lasn is my other Bible, The Hobbit, anything by Tiziano Terzani, and... there are too much!

SERIES, COMICS&CARTOONS: hugl americans, surace, entourage, COUPLING, friends, flashforward, battlestar galactica, Lipstick on your collar The L word, dirt,c.s.i.,medium, criminal minds, heroes,dream on..
i admit i was a huge fan of McGyver as a child, and i don't regret it!,The Simpsons, Griffins, south park, house of rock, the head, beavis and butt-head , aeon flux, animatrix, Daria (It's ME!!)Shigurui, BLAME! and everything by Tsutomu Nihei, Vagabond! and REAL by Takehiko Inoue- i love his style-gintama, Cowboy&bebop, megatokyo, the boondocks, calvin and hobbes , peanuts, oglaf, menage a 3, (Ergo Proxy, Air Gear, Death Note, Tank Girl)
lupo alberto, mutts, spiderman, bloom county..
As for italian authos, i like crepax]] , [andre pazienza, Davide Toffolo, toppi. bucchi and many more.
As you noticed, i purposely mixed asian manga and anime, and comics and cartoons. there's no distinction to me, none of them is better than the other. So if you're some sort of a proud fanatic otaku that get angry anytime a "prophane" calls "comic" a manga, I'm definitely not your kinda girl. I know they're different, but hey, there are more useful ways to spend your time and energies, dude!

MOVIES AND TV STUFF:

http://www.imdb.com/mymovies/list?l=37829304
Last moie at the theatre: Immorals. now i'm curious to watch "the fall" (2011)
Last movie seen at the theatre: Inception. Nolan never disapponts me.(2010)

I recently watched "the man who stares at goats" and found it hylarious, touching, interesting, dramatic, exciting! a movie is well done when it gives you so many different feelings at the same time...
I enjoyed watching The Imaginarium of Doctor Parnassus , Terry Gilliam is always welcome for a night at the cinema.. I love
Miyazaki and Tim Burton's movies without conditions, especially "Edward Schissorhands", "Ed Wood" and "Sweenie Todd" (yeah, Jonny Depp is my favourite actor, and Cristina Ricci is my favourite actress). I Love Arizona Dream, Ladyhawk, Dragonheart,,Donnie Darko,WAKING LIFE, Pitch Black,girls, interrupted,a scanner darkly, everything by Jim jarmusch, The Million Dollar Hotel,Monthy Pytons, Lost In Translation,Boys don't cry, V for vendetta, Dark City, All Lucas OLD Trilogies(indiana jones, star wars),The Matrix, Monster's Ball, Gothica, Ingannevole è il cuore più di ogni cosa, Le Fabuleux Destin d'Amélie Poulain,Dogville, Dancer In The Dark, Pleasantville, Appuntamento a Belleville, Finding Nemo(i am Dory), The Lion King (big purring cats as main characters.. how can i resist?), the Addams family, Symphathy for Lady Vengeance, Japanese story, Old boy, La Dea del '67, The big Lebowsky, Crouching tiger , hidden dragon The Crow,everything by Takeshi Kitano, korean and japanese movies unless they are not too boring (but they never are) . the eye of the beholder,la vesoa e la regina, nessuno mi può giudicare, rooms and corridors, Fucking Amal , Krampack, better than chocolate, Priscilla, queen of the desert etc etc etc..

MUSIC:

i like piano and arp. Opera music's sopranos simply unnerve me. I guess i have a problem with high notes, i get angry when i listen to opera. I listen to radiohead, god is an astronaut, mogwai, maria and the diamonds, florence and the machine, alterbridge, creed, alien and farm, breaking benjamin, tre allegri ragazzi morti, tool, anathema, placebo, tori amos, l'Aura, elisa, pearl jam, stone temple pilots, pj harvey,niobe, bjork, nick cave, tom waits, incubus,The Cure,Nina Simone, tracy chapman,Freshcut, Iggy pop, Lou Reed, David Bowie, Blackfield, Porcupine tree,The Donnas,SMASHING PUMPKINS, CREED, NIRVANA, ALICE IN CHAINS, Moby, enya, Loreena McKennit, Anggun (i need to learn indonesian!), Alanis Morrisette, Sting, Zucchero, Leonard Cohen, EELST, System of a down, Janis Joplin, Patti Smith, and many more!

VIDEOGAMES: JET SET WILLY and MANIC MINER]] , yes i love old stuff!
Also, a cosplay of Rinoa from FFVIII will come sooner or later..

BLOGS and websites i follow: new section coming soon!
http://polyamorymom.blogspot.com/
xkcd
megatokyo

http://www.sinfest.net
http://theoatmeal.com/
http://lovejunkie84.wordpress.com/
http://www.menagea3.net

FOOD:
ITALIAN: [lasagna, pizza, focaccia di Recco and farinata)
Japanese: sushi and sashimi, tempura and teriyaki
chinese, thai, mexican (but not too spicy)
I like prawns, mushrooms, and raw vegetables and fruits, cashews and all nuts!

I love cheese !
I tried to become a veggie but it really didn't work..

Please, never take me to McDonalds. I simply can' t stand the smell! I only got there once because i was offered a salad. and the salad had FRIED SHRIMPS in it. and it gave me space diarrhea all day long. seriously, people, WTF is wrong with McDonald's lovers?

my 5 cats (ok, let's assume they count as one thing)
my free will
my creations (stories/drawings)
my curiosity (and learning)
my lovers
moving, changing, growing up

i've been thinking about BDSM a lot,recently.
I'm not into it, but most of my friends are, and i even recieved some "proposals" [such as "maybe i could start with a progressive introduction of pain and humiliation" or " next time we meet i'll tide you up like a "salame" :)
(figure it out here:
http://www.ars-alimentaria.it/imgProdotto/69731.pd.jpg )"]
I found it funny at first, joked about that, but i think i will give it a try in the future, who knows if i'm gonna like it...

other random topics:
my true self, open relationships, trying to decide if i like the term "polyamory" , my ideal girlfriend, Tokyo, Rio de Janeiro, Dalai Lama, Tibet, War, cruelty, death, how to pay rent and bills, how to set difficult situations, how not to get hurt by mono people, what will i do when i'll be graduated. and so on.

1.i try to sleep, then wake up insomniac and go back to surf the web/read/draw till my eyes finally close up..

2.i am having sex with someone i love ;)

3. i go out to a pub/cinema with a few trusted friends

4. i'm somewhere camping or sleeping in someone else's house if it's too cold to camp

The first thing i was thinking about when we first met was: how would it be to have sex with this person? How do they look like naked? how can i please them?

I'm far more dirty than what you could say at first sight...

I'd like to have sex with an hermaphrodite or a person with an ambigous sexuality...

I have some "repulsion" for gay/effeminate boys.. i'm not racist, but since i am not able to attract them, they embarass me, because i know i'm powerless in front of them..

I am a masochist person.but i could be a sadist too, with the right person...

I've always dreamt to have sex with both a boy and a girl at the same time, and i did it!
Now the next goal is to make LOVE with them....

I can't be monogamous, i tried but it's not my thing... definitely

I admit i can't stand fat insecure people saying it's not their fault. damn, just STOP eating when you're full!
I' ve got a problem about fat people- I'm SLOWLY trying to solve it.. But don't expect too much.
I have dear friends that weight 140kg, but never had sex nor felt attraction for them.
So if you find me hot, and you're a lot overweight, I can't guarantee I'll reply right away.

FOR RELATIONSHIPS:
Message me if you' re a bisexual cute polyamorous girl, looking for a girlfriend and willing to meet both me and my boyfriend IDaneel.
I rarely make the first step, so please do it for me!

FOR FRIENDSHIPS:
Message me if you live near Sydney and you' re accepting of my lifestyle, if you' d like to have an Italian penpal that one day may come to live to Australia.
Or if you' re Japanese or Korean and you would like to have an Italian penpal to exchange language with.
Or If you just want to have an italian virtual friend to chat with!

NEVER message me if: you're searching for your future wife (I don' t believe in marriage)
If you're jealous, racist, ugly and arid inside, or you hate bisexual people, or if you think that women should stay at home cooking and you think you have the right to control/judge ANY of my actions. Heck!

if you only want to have fun , we might have issues. i want someone i can expect to fall inlove with, sooner or later. so i'll always feel that something's missing.
also, please don't bother messaging me if you're in a "poly-phase".
there's no such thing. you're either mono or not.
i'm mot your guinea pig.

Here' s why I don' t reply to everyone: http://www.okcupid.com/profile/beatricegasti/journal/4144355348948095669/Why-I-don't-reply-to-everyone-that-mail-me