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37 Portland, OR Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 29–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:46am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I bicycle everywhere and my hair is quite often messy and in my eyes. i like to do things and go places.
What I’m doing with my life
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teaching. dreaming up things to make happen. doing those things. ecology, music, finding sounds. seeking out wild places. spending quality time with my buds. performing, organizing, writing, editing, collaborating. traveling to perform. playing cards and dice.
I’m really good at
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drumming. writing. coming up with ideas & making them happen. making lists and piles. worrying. bringing people together. teaching. details. not sleeping.
The first things people usually notice about me
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live-in leggings
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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i am always reading the pile of new yorkers next to my bed that i can't seem to keep up with. also working on some books on music, nature + soundscapes.

listening to a lot of music by people i have met or worked with and music that my friends share with me.

the daily show. the muppet show.
days of our lives circa 1988.

pokewith seaweed salad is probably my favorite food right now. yams. eggs. toast. kale. coffee. i love gluten, cheese & meat. not super into sweets.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my fam and tight buds
the woods
my notebook/sketchbook and favorite pens.
creative freedom
sweating real hard
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
places that i want to return to

do i want/ need more coffee right now?

songs i'm writing

racism and how important it is to talk about, and how exactly to go about doing that


how to relate with/ communicate with my students
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working on a project, at a rehearsal, playing catan, backpacking, at an art opening perhaps
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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some things i love: old growth; the smell of fall; new sweaters; cats; running; the classical station; micron pens; New Yorkers; my family; those crazy flat yellow fish in coral reefs in Hawaii; mojave desert; watching ants; tropical rain forests; subalpine meadows; rocks; wetlands.

some things i am not too fond of: most things about television; badly designed condos with expensive rents; leaf blowers; cars that use the bike lane for passing; economic growth for the sake of economic growth; 20 minutes for a bad bagel; clearcuts; hummers.
You should message me if
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you think you could make me laugh

please do *not* message me if: you want to jam/collaborate, you and your partner are looking for a third, you want me to be your slave, you identify as a god from a faraway planet, or if you find yourself positively certain that we'd get along marvelously because we both like music. {yes, i've received each of these types of messages}