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beau_benda

40 / M / Straight / Single

Chicago, Illinois

His Details

Last Online
Today – 5:10am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
The most pragmatic of my bohemian friends, but the least committed. I fixed my professor-friend's turntable with superglue--when later selecting a side for his raging farewell dance party, I recognized that I had served my purpose. In the end they'll ask me to list my contributions and I'll smile sublimely. Because I'm crypto-sophisticate of the deadpan-mischief-funny order: I'm reserved on the outside but musical on the inside: I'm an insatiable listener and affective companion--I believe that nothing matters but those who are given to us to care for. I love to meet others like me who present a mild yet literary face to friends, but whose waters run deep. (Albeit their John Waters.)
What I’m doing with my life
Having trained in cinema I now work as a software engineer for a prominent open-source Linux distribution.

Last year I went to Budapest, Oakland, San Diego, Lancaster, New York, Helsinki, London, Berlin, Copenhagen, and Wisconsin--some for work, some for weddings, some for random bike trips.

I work from home, and getting out of the house for some healthy fun would do me good.
I’m really good at
thrifting, spatial reasoning tasks, identifying songs, not planning
anything at all, driving in total darkness, sounding like a baseball play-by-play announcer, the
crossword, lying down in public places, leading toasts, fixing cars, making omelettes, operatic renditions of Adele songs, i.e. KARAOKE.
The first things people usually notice about me
I take "I like your hair", as a doubly-veiled compliment, and I seek to share life-experience with those who value it :) .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Super-eclectic tastes, especially in cinema; meanwhile I confess to watching House of Cards at a gallop. I cook but not in a sophisticated way. Sushi is a regular pleasure.
The six things I could never do without
Diet Pepsi
Volvo station wagon
infectious fun
non-iron dress shirts
sudo privileges
Chicago skyline
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my TODO list of 3470519874 project ideas and what to do next weekend.
On a typical Friday night I am
. . . doing something about which my friends will giggle with a scandalous toss of the hair, "so typical!"
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You own a laserdisc that you've never actually watched.