I'm genuine, thoughtful and sincere. I have a very strong sense of justice. I'm open to finding a meaningful match.
What I’m doing with my life
I write. I paint. I determine ways to make businesses run more effectively and efficiently.
I’m really good at
Articulating and simplifying complex ideas. I'm also very thoughtful and compassionate, but I am extremely good at taking care of myself and protecting the interest of the people I care about.
The first things people usually notice about me
People note my confidence and ability to clearly articulate what is happening around me and with me. I'm very observant. I also have a dark sense of humor which can be clever but intimidating to some people. You are not one of them, you will be fine :)
The six things I could never do without
The edge of a sheet or pillow case (ever since I was a kid, I needed that in my ear to go to sleep)
My family and closest friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Self improvement, the things happening around me, finding someone
special to lavish with attention (and being the kind of person that
that kind of person deserves). Attention in the short term, perhaps
growing long term.
On a typical Friday night I am
Taking it easy. Maybe I'm at dinner, maybe making dinner. Maybe drinking scotch. Usually enjoying myself.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like the warehousing of people. I think that dating sites are
such warehouses, very much like an IKEA or your favorite outlet.
The vast majority of things there you certainly dont need, and much
of it you dont want.. You go anyway, look, touch, turn away; yet,
with some feeling of satisfaction for simply having been there,
though quite possibly with a sense of overwhelmed anxiety. Too much
"noise".. Either way, at least on a dating site, it takes me mere
seconds to get there and I dont have to get ready. And nobody,
except some of the people already secretly there can see me. We
nod, wink and smile on occasion, but generally go our own separate
ways.. And put up walls, like "responds very selectively". Lets put
them all the way in the back, but on a bottom shelf..
You should message me if
You value family. You value loyalty. I've got an excellent sense of humor, but you realize that there is considerably more to any relationship than merely my ability to make you laugh. Message me if you're open minded.