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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:02pm
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm genuine, thoughtful and sincere. I have a very strong sense of justice. I also have a bit of an edge, but usually it's helpful and always well intentioned. I'm very open to finding a meaningful match.
What I’m doing with my life
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I write. I paint. I determine ways to make businesses run more effectively and efficiently.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Articulating and simplifying complex ideas. I'm also very thoughtful and compassionate, but I am extremely good at taking care of myself and protecting the interest of the people I care about.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People note my confidence and ability to clearly articulate what is happening around me and with me. I'm very observant. I also have a dark sense of humor which can be clever but intimidating to some people. You are not one of them, you will be fine :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My phone
The edge of a sheet or pillow case (ever since I was a kid, I needed that in my ear to go to sleep)
My family and closest friends
Life-long learning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Self improvement, the things happening around me, finding someone special to lavish with attention (and being the kind of person that that kind of person deserves). Attention in the short term, perhaps growing long term.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Taking it easy. Maybe I'm at dinner, maybe making dinner. Maybe drinking scotch. Usually enjoying myself.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like the warehousing of people. I think that dating sites are such warehouses, very much like an IKEA or your favorite outlet. The vast majority of things there you certainly dont need, and much of it you dont want.. You go anyway, look, touch, turn away; yet, with some feeling of satisfaction for simply having been there, though quite possibly with a sense of overwhelmed anxiety. Too much "noise".. Either way, at least on a dating site, it takes me mere seconds to get there and I dont have to get ready. And nobody, except some of the people already secretly there can see me. We nod, wink and smile on occasion, but generally go our own separate ways.. And put up walls, like "responds very selectively". Lets put them all the way in the back, but on a bottom shelf..
You should message me if
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You value family. You value loyalty. I've got an excellent sense of humor, but you realize that there is considerably more to any relationship than merely my ability to make you laugh. Message me if you're open minded.