I'm genuine, thoughtful and sincere. Extremely loyal and loving. I'm also moody, and sometimes stubborn. I have a very strong sense of justice. I'm the guy who not only gives up his seat on the train but asks other men to do it when its appropriate (none of the dozens of people I've asked has EVER told me no). There you have it.

Very interesting things..

Articulating and simplifying complex ideas. I'm also very thoughtful and compassionate, but I am extremely good at taking care of myself and protecting the interest of the people I care about. If I set my mind to something, its generally done.

People note my confidence and ability to clearly articulate what is happening around me and with me. I'm very observant. I also have a dark sense of humor which can be clever but intimidating to some people. You are not one of them, you will be fine :) People also notice that I don't smile much in pics. Not sure why, but maybe people keep forgetting to say "CHEESE!!"

iphone
moisturizer
the edge of a sheet or pillow case (ever since i was a kid, i needed that in my ear to go to sleep)
my family and closest friends
ability to continue learning
ill stop at 5 because im a deviant.

Self improvement, the things happening around me, finding someone special to lavish with attention (and being the kind of person that that kind of person deserves). Attention in the short term, perhaps growing long term.

Doing what I feel like, like most days :)

I like the warehousing of people. I think that dating sites are such warehouses, very much like an IKEA or your favorite outlet. The vast majority of things there you certainly dont need, and much of it you dont want.. You go anyway, look, touch, turn away; yet, with some feeling of satisfaction for simply having been there, though quite possibly with a sense of overwhelmed anxiety. Too much "noise".. Either way, at least on a dating site, it takes me mere seconds to get there and I dont have to get ready. And nobody, except some of the people already secretly there can see me. We nod, wink and smile on occasion, but generally go our own separate ways.. And put up walls, like "responds very selectively". Lets put them all the way in the back, but on a bottom shelf..

You are what I'm looking for.