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41 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

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6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I like surprising people with how nice, genuine and caring I am.
I like that I came from nothing, and turned it into something.
I like that people feel comfortable around me almost instantly and share things they wouldn't normally.
I like looking like a scumbag, frankly, just because I dig it.
I like being honest, usually to a fault, because I don't understand the point in not being that way.
I like that I've been through so much in my life, as I feel you grow with every experience, good or bad.
I like that I'm very confident but every so often, that sky kid inside pokes his head out.
I like that I couldn't be more even keeled in my day-to-day life but have very agressive/dominant tendencies in private.
I like who I am as a person.
If you do too, that's awesome, if not, that's cool. I'm not everybody's cup of tea.
Also, I like writing these when I'm drunk.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm an Art Director in the publishing world. I try to make things look pretty, while the man tries to hold me back. I do some cooking/bbq/catering on the side
All while trying to enjoy life as much as possible...and I'm doing pretty well at it.

I already have one job, don't need my personal life to be a second. Besides the cooking is already a second job. Which would make the other a third...what was I saying?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making something from nothing. And being adorable. And cooking. And modesty.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Most people think I'm working, usually as the bouncer, wherever I hang out. It could be the tattoos or my generally imposing presence. Or the dimples. Still haven't figured out if that's a good thing or not, but I've seen a lot of IDs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love all kinds of food but tend to gravitate toward barbecue and Asian food. Or Asian barbecue. I am an extremely adventurous eater and will jump at the chance to try something new.

Musically, I am pretty manic...seriously. (Beastie Boys, Ministry, Rancid, Childish Gambino, Clutch, Cop Shoot Cop, Johnny Cash, Everlast, Sleigh Bells, White Zombie, Social Distortion, La Coka Nostra, Roots, WuTang, Rolling Stones, Suicidal Tendencies, Action Bronson, Ramones, Tribe Called Quest...Boyz II Men...Ahem).

I'm kind of a sucker for Heist movies and Documentaries. I consume documentaries at a feverish pace. My favorites being "Snatch" and "Jiro Dreams of Sushi" in their respective categories.

Most of the books I read are non-fiction and seem to relate to food. Go figure. (Salt, Cod, Omnivore's Dilemma, Kitchen Confidential...). Oh, and The Tale of Peter Rabbit (35 years later and I'm still worried Mr. McGregor is going the catch him every time.) Yeah, I know.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Pork Buns.
Pork Buns.
Human Contact.
Pork Buns.
Pork Buns.
Pork Buns.

And my bicycle, I pretty much ride or walk everywhere.

And sex. But you knew that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. But mostly, food and sex. But you knew that, again.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out. Making bad decisions. You don't learn from good decisions.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I learn from those bad decisions. And repeat them anyway.
Life shouldn't be boring.
You should message me if
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I'm not entirely sure what I'm looking for on here, but I'm willing to try and find out. Hit me up if you'd like to hang out, and have some fun with a decent guy.

**In response to the 3 questions I get asked most:
1. Yes, I really am 6'1"
2. My photos look exactly like me. (Give or take a few recent tattoos)
3. I'm not opposed to a serious relationship**