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beckerbuns

42 Redwood City, CA Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:39am
Orientation
Heteroflexible
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Two-year college
Job
Administration
Income
Rather not say
Status
Seeing Someone
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Speaks
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am currently in a relationship with a man. I am happy in my current relationship and friendships.

That being said, I am looking for friends of both sexes. I'm poly friendly and hetero flexible / bisexual.

I'm not sure I have time for another relationship but I'm open to talking and seeing where things go.

It would also be awesome to have a special woman in my life. It's been far too long.

Men: I AM NOT LOOKING FOR CASUAL SEX, A HOOKUP, A ONE NIGHT STAND, OR A FWB.

And for Pete's sake if you are unhappy in your current relationship/not getting enough sex, please talk to your partner about it instead of coming to OKC to find someone to cheat on them with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I keep myself busy working at the library. I work also for a large local tech company. When I have spare time, I sell stuff on eBay.

I have some college behind me and am considering returning in the fall.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-driving a 16 foot box truck
-riding a unicycle (or at least I was last time I was on one about 15 years ago)
-juggling
-trying new recipes
-gardening
-special education advocacy
-typing (100+ wpm)
-learning new software
-playing the Atari 2600
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Aside from the obvious...
I'm told that my smile is noticeable. My soft hair and lips. My laugh maybe, my sense of humor, my occasional (very occasional) sarcasm. :) My closeness with, and dedication to, my kids.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
Anything by Christopher Moore, Neil Gaiman, Jennifer Weiner, Jodi Picoult, Audrey Niffenegger, Sue Grafton, T. C. Boyle, Judy Blume, Janet Evanovich, Madeleine L'Engle, Chris Bohjalian, Anita Shreve

Movies:
Nightmare Before Christmas, Groundhog Day, Princess Bride, Forrest Gump, Roxanne, Clerks, Airplane, Naked Gun, Titanic, Beetlejuice, Back to the Future trilogy, Indiana Jones 1 and 3, Inception, Chances Are, Benny & Joon, Say Anything, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Happy Gilmore, Four Weddings and a Funeral, The Wedding Singer, 50 First Dates, Shawshank Redemption, Stand By Me, The Thing Called Love, Indian Summer, Office Space, When Harry Met Sally, Dirty Dancing, Cutting Edge, Breakfast Club, Awake, Elf, and others

TV:
The Walking Dead, Big Bang Theory, Sons of Anarchy, The Soup, Lost, Breaking Bad, Dexter, Raising Hope, Rizzoli & Isles, Dead Like Me, Twin Peaks, House, Green Room, Jimmy Fallon, Daily Show, Colbert, Psych, Monk, Whose Line is it Anyway, Mythbusters, Dirty Jobs, Billy the Exterminator, Teen Mom, 16 and Pregnant, Real Life, King of the Hill, Pop Up Video, Zoom, Phineas & Ferb.

Music:
Maroon 5, Oingo Boingo, Metallica, Train, OneRepublic, Walk Off the Earth, Matt Nathanson, Jonathan Coulton, TMBG, Smash Mouth, Barenaked Ladies, Blink-182, Fall Out Boy, Alanis Morisette, Weird Al Yankovic, Avril Lavigne, Green Day, Black Eyed Peas, Foo Fighters, Go-Go's, B-52's, Blue Man Group, Dixie Chicks, AC/DC, and many others

Food:
Mexican, Thai, Chinese, Indian... And I am an unabashed candy fiend. I particularly like Nerds, Pixy Stix, Skittles, Starburst, and Milk Duds.
I have a possibly unhealthy obsession with tacos and super nachos from Taco Bravo.
As far as homemade stuff I like beef stroganoff and tuna casserole the best, but I'm not a picky eater by far.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-my kids (they count as one thing) :P
-my smartphone
-my computer
-my car
-my iPod
-a good book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What makes people tick.
Love.
Happiness, and the pursuit of it.
Adam Levine (I'm not kidding).
Money, and why there never seems to be enough of it in my bank account.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working. After that maybe on a date. If not that, then watching TV, surfing the web. Hanging out with friends. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This question is dumb so I'm not going to answer it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You were intrigued by any of this profile and want to talk about it. Don't hesitate to write :)

If I looked at your profile and you're intrigued. Just because I didn't message you doesn't mean I'm not interested. Sometimes I just don't know how to strike up a conversation.

I used to be A list but I'm not anymore. So I can't see who has rated me on here. If you rated me highly, don't be shy. Write to me. :)

I'm far more likely to respond if you've got a picture or two on your profile. Or, preferably, more. Doesn't need to be anything fancy but it's nice to put a face to the profile, in my brain. Ya know? I went to the trouble of picking some pictures to put up here, so shouldn't you, too?

Please don't contact me if you're not in one of these counties: Santa Clara, Alameda, Contra Costa, San Mateo, San Benito, San Francisco, Marin, Santa Cruz, or Monterey. (Or moving to the area soon.) If you're female, any additional counties bordering any of those are also okay.

Please don't contact me if you're a game player or a player in general, or are cheating on someone.

Note: Before you message me, please make sure you've read everything. If it's obvious right from the start that you didn't bother to read my profile before messaging me, I am not going to respond to you and I'll likely block you. And report you if needed.

A final note: I try to respond to every message I get on okc. However, if you're going to start right off talking about my boobs... Please don't bother. Don't be *that* person. Be original. There's a lot of information in my profile. Find something else to start with. Just an idea.