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bedel08

21 / M / Gay / Single

Minneapolis, Minnesota

His Details

Last Online
Feb 21, 2011
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I take life as it comes to me and for the most part believe that I am a happy and positive person. I have a firm moral and belief system, and am always open to learning how others see life for themselves.
Being a very socially driven person, I find great joy in meeting new people and stepping outside of my comfort zone every once and a while. The ability to learn from others and about others is something that shouldn't be taken for granted!

I'm a very driven and motivated person, and also tend to be a bit of a work-a-holic. I spend quite a bit of time working, or at work, and with my school schedule added to it things may be a bit hectic, but I still know how to slow down and enjoy the quiet moments. :-)

Always looking to start up an interesting conversation, or to meet new people for dates/friendship.

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What I’m doing with my life
Currently I work in an office setting and am open to any new possibilities that come my way for the work world. I am also pursuing a business/psych degree and would like to finish that to hopefully one day use my skills to achieve my long term goals I have set for myself.

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I’m really good at
Cooking/Baking, Writing, Communicating, Socializing, Fixing Cars, Remodeling, Computers/Technology, Shopping, My Job

Asking me what I'm "really good at" is a rather vague question which is why I gave vague answers... I consider myself a jack of all trades really, I dabble in a little bit of everything that suits my interest! I'm always down to learn a new skill or hobby!

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The first things people usually notice about me
My hair is usually one of the first things people notice about me... red hair isn't all too common, and I do enjoy my hair color.
Otherwise, my eyes, smile, personality, and smarts.

I've also been told by quite a few people that I have a nice ass... haha :-P

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Sushi is a food group, it truly is.

As far as books go, I've been very into Sci-Fi novels my whole life (Michael Crichton, Stephen King, etc) although I do enjoy other series books.

Music is such a broad subject for me. I am very passionate about music. Played instruments and was in choir all through school until college, and performed with my brother on a few occasions. I will listen to ANY music, and usually enjoy it :-)

Movies are a great activity for a relaxing evening, but I rarely if ever will go see a movie in theaters. I like wayyyyy too many movies to list here so I will go over my favorites:
The 40 Year Old Virgin, Twister, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, Sex and The City (1&2), Timeline, The Women, Knocked Up, The Fast and The Furious, Gone in 60 Seconds, Gone With The Wind, Blow, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, The In Crowd, Cruel Intentions, seriously this could go on forever... I'll stop here ;-)

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The six things I could never do without
1. A car - Lovingly named Helen
2. My kitty Harley
3. My family/friends - May not be material but I couldn't live without them :-)
4. The ability to sing/speak - Musical ability and speech are two very important things to me.
5. The ability to hear
6. A cellphone - Self explanatory really!

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about politics/current events, the state of the world, and what the future may bring. I don't believe in worrying about what we ourselves cannot control because that is the ultimate form of letting fear control the outcome of your life. I prefer to ponder on the possibilities of the future.

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On a typical Friday night I am
Most Friday nights I spend with friends watching movies or hanging out, going out to eat or movies, or just relaxing at home with some good music and some wine.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am an open book and will answer just about any question asked of me. No point in posting all sorts of personal things off the internet, but feel free to ask me as you see fit.

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I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18-32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You like what you see/hear. It's nice to make new connections even if it's just for friends, even better if it's for something more!

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