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beenjammin1

36 / M / Straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

His Details

Last Online
May 11
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Judaism and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I do not consider myself normal. I try to avoid stereotypes, sometimes with success. I tend to not watch TV, even on DVD(well sometimes), try to spend my free time doing some sort of art, even if I don't always succeed. I'm both a visual artist(sculptor) and aural artist(DJ). Balancing the two is often difficult.

I really like people of all kinds, but the the crazier the better. All the people I call "friend" are not quite normal either. I often find it amusing when someone describes someone else as "Crazy". Kettle Black?

I've been to Burning Man quite a few times. I love the community and the art aspects, along with the music and dancing scene.

In a nut shell:
Chill, Artistic(autistic?), DIY, Brooklynite, Short, broad, bald, fun. and much, much more.
What I’m doing with my life
I rebuilt the TreeHouse that I installed on Governors Island last year. It's closed now, but will be back up next season.

Here'what it looks like:
http://newyork.figmentproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/c_2012_Tes-Rivera_sculpture-garden_TreeHouse_by_Benjamin-Jones_figment_nyc.jpg

I'm also designing the set for the show FLIGHT18. Check out the website here: http://flight18.net.

Don't worry it's safe.
I’m really good at
Cooking, Making things. Choosing music for the right situation, and listening.

I've recently been mastering the Art of Ramen.
The first things people usually notice about me
Maybe, that I'm short and bald? I don't know actually. Sometimes it's my tattoos if I happen to be wearing a tank top, which happens a lot in the summer.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Media is transient but I guess the what you like is as important as what you are like.

Books: Time Travelers Wife, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Catch-22, anything by Kurt Vonnegut, Tao Te Ching, Tao of Pooh, Why Things Break, Neil Gaiman, Alan Moore. I guess I should say i read a lot of Fantasy too.

Recent Favorite read: Shop Class as Soul Craft.

Music: First and foremost House Music. It's a proper noun in my vocabulary. I'm also into Hip-hop, of the old school/conscious form, and Classic rock. Funk, Soul, RnB and DnB also have special places in my heart.

TV: I don't watch TV much anymore but I have watched a little.

Arrested Development, Madmen, and the First Season of Heroes are pretty good. Just finished watching the first season of Game of Thrones, loved it. They did an amazing job with amazing books.

Recently got into FireFly, I know i'm a little late in the game. But it's so good.

Old TV: Loved, M.A.S.H., Transformers, GI JOE, Thundercats Voltron, Buffy the Vampire Slayer.

Food: any food as long as it's good tasting and/or bad for you.
The six things I could never do without
Music, art, love, friends, family, and my cats.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to innovate. it has to be one of the hardest hurdles to overcome.

How to make a living doing what I love.
On a typical Friday night I am
DJing at a party or dancing at one. Possibly going to movie, or chilling at someone else's house. Not often at home on a friday.

Been staying in more lately. anyone want to stay in with me?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I still sleep with a teddy bear.

I'm Poly and kinky. So there. Poly is up in the air at the moment. We'll see which side of the coin lands up.

Despite being very social. I'm actually pretty shy when it comes to meeting new people, so if you make the firs step. I will definitely respond.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You like to have fun, in all it's forms. What's the point of living if it ain't fun. And if you're a little kinky it wouldn't hurt

Not looking for serious relationships right now, However not just looking to hook up. I guess i'm looking for lovers who can show mutual respect and sense of love. If that's the kind of thing you want, Message me.