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behappy_now

55 F Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I think our past is a reflection of who we are and what we value. Adventure and challenge have been a big part of my life. I've traveled to many places and have lived in Germany, Costa Rica as well as California and Colorado. I've kayaked on weeklong trips, scuba dived in Australia and moved to a new country without a job. I enjoy learning about new perspectives in cultures other than my own and travel helps satisfy my curious nature. After living in California for many years, I moved to Portland (in 2006) not knowing a soul. After my son went off to college, I went back to school and changed careers. Life is good!
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm enjoying my life and creating a balance between work and play, and finding time to kayak, garden, hike and learn new things.
Last November I started running and just completed my first half marathon. I'm hooked! The Portland Marathon is in October and I'm ready to sign up!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at looking objectively at things in my life and making the best choices instead of asking why things fall out the way they do. I make plans and see them through to completion. I'm good at connecting with kids. I can bring most half-dead plants back to life and grow big veggies in my garden. I'm good at making a last minute plan to do something because it sounds like fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I hear I have a nice smile and that I'm friendly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm always reading a book and mixing it up between fiction and non-fiction. I could spend hours at Powell's just looking around.
music: bluegrass, Latin, old rock and roll and then live is the best!
food: Indian, Mexican, vegetarian
favorite movies: Blair Witch, anything with Johnny Depp, Chocolat, foreign movies, British historical content or any British show.
Books: children's picture books, art history, non-fiction about sea life
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family (thank goodness for them!)
friends
great food, beer and coffee in my neighborhood
the great outdoors!
books
making juice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about travel plans for the summer and how many times I'll go kayaking and camping, why there are random acts of kindness and random violence, why people are judgmental and what motivates them. And on a more serious note, why some flower petals are sticky.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm relaxing with friends who love to cook or going out and enjoying the weather in an outdoor cafe. Sometimes its a planned evening listening to live music or watching a movie and other times its walking my dog to a local hang-out to meet up with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Yikes, I'm not going to bare my soul here. Okay, it does say, "willing to admit" so it would be that I love hiking and camping by myself.
You should message me if
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You're sincere and funny. You'd rather take a hike in Forest Park than sit and watch TV (and don't mind the rain). You're active, in good shape and truly are a nice guy.