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behappyilious

42 / F / straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Black, White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
—
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
—
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am creative, cute, and and a bad ass.

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My Self-Summary

Who I am is love , power, courage and self expression.
I can zone out playing table tennis. I practice a 20 minute yoga set every morning...grounds me. I'm a writer. I write articles from how to behappy to how to consolidate debt. I wrote 2 plays, and a webseries.
I have a goal/aspiration to own my own home near water. I'm only comfortable around people who seek out the truth of their existance. I enjoy ambiance music, acoustic pop & rock. I like the last games of all sports.

I don't have anything pierced or tattoos, instead I change my hairstyle/ color/texture every other day as a form of self expression.

What I’m doing with my life

I work in the theater, TV & Film. When I'm not doing that I'm working on creating passive income. When I'm not doing that, I'm checking out my artist friends and their work. Lately I've been re adjusting to life in New York City. Found a very cool loft in Bushwick, busy decorating.

I’m really good at

Decorating, fashion, self expression, story telling, aggressive driving, pulling together my resouces and passing them along, giving and receiving.

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile. My laugh. Curly wild hair.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Book - Collette
Movie - Magnolia
Favorite Music - Imani Coppola
Food - Indian. Raw Food cuisine.

The six things I could never do without

Ipod
sneakers
pillow
hammock
sarong

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Being present.
Writing plays and books
How nice it would be to meet someone I'm attracted to and they are attracted to me, together we share common interests
How not to eat sugar & flour
How to turn a run down building into an investment

On a typical Friday night I am

probably catching up with friends or celebrating something

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

The struggle it took for me to get off nicotine. 4 1/2 years off.

You should message me if

You think you are hilarious and your friends can confirm that. You are happy with yourself and how far you've come. You enjoy being with a confident woman. You don't mind driving to the destination, yet enjoy walking all over the city or country side when we get there. You like real estate. You would be into camping. If dancing was involved you'd be up for it. You like to cuddle. You've got some spirtuality going on. Had to say it, there seems to be a lot of cute atheist on here.

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