Someone recently told me that I'm both refined and rugged. Very intelligent, talented, multi-faceted and complex, but never boring.
So, it's important to know that I'm definitely not a typical "guy" and probably not a typical anything. I'm not feminine or metro, but I'm just not into sports or cars. I have nothing against sports. They're fine. I just don't really care either way.
I will say that I cannot spend more than 30 seconds around a guy who is talking about sports. I would seriously rather puncture myself. They always assume that because I'm a guy, that I'll actually know what the hell sport they're talking about or team, whatever. So, I start talking about dinosaurs.
So far, only one out of every 30 men are interested that pteranodons and pterodactyls were not birds even though they could fly.
I do not do well with high-maintenance women. High-maintenance women are stinky. Selfish, self-serving, mean, shallow women are the most unattractive to me. That goes the same for materialism.
I also have no interest in tattoos or anything superficial and I don't date vegans.
Would you believe I don't have any irrational, emotional issues?
I never hold grudges or try to get back at people. I just don't get that thought process. Kindness is sexy! Although, one time I told my boss that her mother eats hay. Then I quit that job. I told human resources I was sorry.
I want lots of romance, but I don't want a fairy tale romance. Are you sure you want a prince to carry you away? Have you ever met a prince? I have. I met four princes of Saudi Arabia. Four of the most uninteresting, smelly, over-weight, walking sausages. By all means, have them carry you away.
Although, I don't get paid for it at the moment, I am an artist and a writer. No, I really am. I don't just go to bars and talk about it. I am hoping to publish this year. I do have a very creative job, but an odd schedule.
I raised my son by myself with zero support. No spouse, no child support, no grandparents to help me. He's 17 and in college now.
It sometimes seems that women I meet either just want me to have children with them or help raise their children. No thank you. I actually would like to be with someone who is interested in me and not what I can give them.
I want an amazing, deep relationship with someone filled with tremendous affection, laughter, sensuality and passion that will lead to moving in with me by the beach. That's why I am on here. If you don't know what you want, do not waste my time.
If your life is too chaotic or you work too much, you shouldn't be dating and wasting everyone's time, right?
I really, really, really, really do not care how often you work out. I would like to actually meet someone INTERESTING! Or at least open to interests.
I Love science, art, history, engineering, literature, nature, philosophy, ancient and modern cultures and religions. I belong to several museum and nature park memberships in a LA, OC, and San Diego. I write essays and short stories. I draw, paint and sculpt. I've been to 10 times as many classical performances and plays than rock concerts. I play five instruments and compose music. I love cartoons and ridiculous comedy.