i care about being with what is authentic in myself and others. i'd like for my life to help our species thrive while giving myself joy. i like to cuddle with people i'm close to. i experiencing awe in nature.
for a while i combined architecture & social justice, then worked in minimalist architecture in nyc. left to recover myself, study empathy & interpersonal neurobiology, travel, and sculpt. now i'm getting back into humanitarian architecture.
i see intimacy as a shared place we co-nourish in a continuous string of connection through time - through joy/pain & physical proximity/ distance. i like to be met in this kind of connection.
mostly i'm interested in men who want monogamy & family while also living our many loves and intimate connections. i’m looking for someone who shares my values and creates secure connections.