i'm monogamous, poly-affectionate, and bi-coastal :)

i'm monogamous with my beloved & poly-affectionate in emotionally intimate community. i co-create family/tribe that nurtures self, partner, little ones, community in being fully who we are, thriving.

i love to be held and to hold. i am into profound healing, release, growth, connection. sometimes words feel small. i enjoy spaciousness & resonance in my connections. i hold life w/ reverence.

i love integration & wholeness - masculine/ feminine, left/right hemispheres, analytical/emotional, big/little. interested in needs-based communication, interpersonal neurobiology, constellation work, the human awareness institute. i resonate w/ heart-connected people and see self-connection & vulnerability as true power.

i am an aunt and its the most important job i have.

"a voice within says: come fully inside. come lay down here in the silence of being. if there is a sadness, it will be to spend our life in separation from our inmost being." - mooji

i left my career & life in nyc. deep cleaning, deep letting go, restarting. being present and healing the places where i'm not yet.

being completely nourished in nature
appreciating & creating minimalist spaces
empathic connection, gentleness, reverence
sharing presence, essence, silence
playing with kids and some adults

people say they notice my eyes. someone told me the other day they felt connection with me when they entered the room, before we met.

food: organic, indian, ethiopian, juicing, chocolate
movies: red, amelie, ponyo, the holiday
books: reading "delusions of gender"
shows: touch, colbert report
music: colin hay, kate earl, alexi murdoch, thao, hannah georgas, xx

self-care & care
hot springs & ocean
warm shared presence
love

what ingredients can i put together to make something yummy?
what contributes to aliveness for me, for someone else?
how we can create a world in which everyone thrives?
healing: personal, family, systemic, cultural.
connection: with nature & people.

hanging out w/ someone i care about in person or on the phone.

much of what i've shared already feels private.
i'd enjoy building trust to share more.

you are looking for more loving connections, you are open to friendship. you are gentle, caring, warm, open. you are interested in growth and explore your spirituality in some way.

you are ok with getting to know each other through writing before meeting.

if you are securely attached i would enjoy that. you can take the quiz here: http://www.yourpersonality.net/relstructures/