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beingthere09

36 M Dallas, TX

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:59pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Hinduism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Korean (Okay), Hindi (Okay)

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My self-summary
I believe in gray spaces, those areas in which we can be seemingly contradictory, or not classified one way or another. What are yours? My examples:

I seek out counterculture, but Chili's is one of my favorite restaurants.
I grew up in Texas but quite liberal.
I'm still liberal in Texas, but don't really like Austin.
I have an Ivy League master's degree, but my dream job would involve outdoor manual labor.
I'm Indian, but like old country music.
I believe in poetic license, but not microbrews (domestic, light much preferred).

I also like people, and believe there is nothing more important than being kind. I always say 'thank you' and 'excuse me', even to the rudest. I cannot bring myself to be harsh to a waiter, even if he's terrible. Though - I can be forward and masculine, but I try not to forget that everyone out there has a mother; I'm nice, but real.

I travel. Excessively. Preferably with a loose itinerary and no checklists. I'm at over 65 countries currently.

I've been told by several that I look like Mark Ruffalo. But younger, and not white.

I grew up in Dallas, but just moved back a few months ago after several years on both coasts and yonder.

I'm fun. Or at least create it. I find tension and nervousness completely unnecessary. If we meet, let's let that be the tone.
What I’m doing with my life
Maximizing it, by experiencing new places and trying to surround myself with insightful people.

I run a small company that has big machines and produces things on paper.
I’m really good at
Being genuine, mental math, creating passwords, shucking osyters, keeping in touch, long flights
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Cheese: food, but not music
Provocative: books, movies, and food
Lyrically acoustic: music, but not TV shows
Avocado: food with, but not books about
Cerebral comedy: movies and shows, again not food

And a random sample more categorically:

Food: sushi, goat cheese, any cheese, lamb, brussel sprouts, Ethiopian, Tex-Mex
Books/Authors: Dave Eggers, Philip Roth, David Foster Wallace, Lonely Planet
Music: Josh Ritter, Decemberists, Polyphonic Spree, Willie Nelson, The Eels, Ray LaMontagne
TV: Breaking Bad, Arrested Development, Drunk History, Homeland, Louie, Friday Night Lights
Movies: Old School, The Wes Anderson collection, Talladega nights, things with Seth Rogen, Annie Hall, Three Kings
The six things I could never do without
Curiosity
World maps
Dogs (though I don't have one)
Sarcastic humor
Hot weather
Podcasts (esp This American Life & The Moth)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to keep myself from thinking too much
On a typical Friday night I am
Saying "Damnit, this night is typical."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Many movies make me tear up, in a very masculine way
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You don't believe things should follow a set script. You are vibrant, fun, like books and travel, and go with the flow.