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bekathwia

29 F Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:33pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 1″ (1.54m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Often
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I’m a sassy overachiever looking for true love. I’m hyper-passionate and hard-headed in my career but seeking to share my softer side with an equally magnificent and confident long-term partner who wants to go on long dog walks in the park and go out for oysters and cocktails. I’ve been called captivating, devastating, highly competent, direct, thorough, a total sweetheart, and an arrogant cunt. Looking for a man I can trust my life with, both figuratively and literally.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’m a rare bird with an extremely unique, creative, and influential career in tech and media. I’m ambitious, confident, and have gained significant notoriety in my field through hard work cultivating my talents. I’m also an adjunct professor at a design grad program.

Outside of work I belong to a couple notable art groups, so I’ve always got a side project going on, sometimes even a show or a trip.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
imagining things and then and making them with my hands, like electronics, crafts, videos and photos, food

overplanning, interrupting
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
petite ginger lady with a nose ring and illuminated tchotchkes, seen often with a large dog and/or hulking bodyguard
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Snow Crash, Omnivore’s Dilemma, Albertus Seba's Cabinet of Natural Curiosities

Brazil, Dirty Dancing, things by Wes Anderson, Christopher Guest, Miyazaki, Kubrick, Herzog

TNG, Project Runway, Law & Order SVU

KEXP and SomaFM internet radio, Magnolia Electric Co., TMBG, self-aggrandizing pop and hiphop

ramen, oysters, scotch, crème brûlée, coffee
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
hands, tools, sleep, the internet, health insurance, cuddling
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to have better/great relationships, my current and future projects, "women in tech," what fun thing my dog and I are going to do this weekend
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Diddling on the computer and smoking weed, punctuated by sing along dance breaks (“me time”). Wishlist? Visiting places in your time machine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You probably can’t tell by looking at me on any given day, but my knees are comprised of 97% garbage and after five surgeries they're trashed— I always need a place to sit and won’t be doing any activities involving the words skate, ski, board, or surf—- ever. And because it happens all the time, I must ask: Please don't open with "what'd you do to your knees?"-- one's painful medical history is not a charming conversation starter.
You should message me if
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Maybe I tickle your fancy and you want to get to know me as a person and a friend (before I'm your tech consultant or fucktoy). I'm looking to meet people outside of my professional circles whom I can charm (or repel) strictly on my own merits. You should be highly skilled and/or talented and doing what you love. Maybe you're an expert in a field different from mine. Please be entirely awesome and confident about it (maybe even a little arrogant).

Must love dogs.