Independent, strong willed, curvy and gentle. I can't stand football and dislike it when people can't keep themselves clean.

We all have vices, mine are chocolate and...well...you'd have to get to know before I tell you any others. ;-)
I don't drink alcohol, or smoke, or take drugs. Nor do I drink tea or coffee.

I don't have a sylph-like figure but I am not a blob. If you don't like some curves, then don't message me. Sadly, I am not as fit as I used to be. This is because I am lazy and need to do more physical things. Not to mention find time to do more things in between my very busy life.

I am polyamorous, kinky and have another partner who is cool about the whole "doing things with other people" stuff. If you want to have fun with me, be aware that I am seeing someone else but it's all ethical and above board.

I don't enjoy cooking and I get quite pessimistic about life sometimes. As much as people can disappoint, so they also give me hope. Although, I do wonder if perhaps the dolphins should just inherit the earth. I'm not vegan, not vegetarian and I'm not as ecologically friendly as I should be.

Working, helping run bisexual events, trying to improve me and my life and the lives of those I love.

I don't have long term life plans that drive me onwards. Nor do I have any particular religious goals of attainment such as enlightenment, nirvana or heaven. Vocations seem to exist for others, but not for me.

It is the daily enjoyment of life, of interaction with others and learning new things that keeps me going. I've lived all over the place and even in other countries.

I do plan to travel and should do it before I die. Obviously, I have no idea when I am going to die. It would be good to know when it will be, but not how. Imagine if you knew how and it was going to be painful, ow. Also means I wouldn't be tempted to avoid it because, whilst I don't believe in Fate, I do think that death is an inevitable part of life.

Writing, sleeping, breathing, listening and meowing like a cat. Seriously, I can meow just like a cat. I fool stupid cats (yes, they exist).

(scratches head) What else would you like to know?
It turns out that it's harder than I thought to tell you what I'm really good at. I can tell you what I'm not good at: cooking, playing football, reading maps, putting make-up on, putting up with arrogance and walking in high heels.

I am good at: organising things, puzzles, listening to friends' problems and hopes, massage and making people feel comfortable and relaxed.

If they are facing my front and looking at me, my red hair and my eyes.
If they are facing my back and looking at me, my gorgeous bottom.
If they are listening to me, my northern accent.
If they are touching me, my soft skin.
If they are smelling me, the lack of chemicals on my skin.
If they are watching my words online, that I can actually spell and write reasonably grammatically correct english.

I love books. Particularly fantasy and, though it shames me to say it, trashy vampire/supernatural erotica. Some of my favourite authors are Mercedes Lackey, Anne McCaffrey, Laurell K Hamilton, James Clemens, Robert Rankin, Karen Miller and Terry Pratchett.

Food likes...hmm, chocolate, potatoes, cherries and ostrich.

I have a mix of music tastes and love dancing. Music I own includes NIN, Beautiful South, Metallica, Eddie Reader, Chris de Burgh, various 80s pop stuff and classical.

As a general rule, I don't like jazz, thrash metal or rave music. Having said that, if there's a track I like, I don't care which genre it comes from.

Dancing is something I love and anyone I'm interested in needs to be willing to dance too.

Air
Water
Food
Somewhere to live
Things to learn
Love

Life, what to have for tea, who I'm going to see next, where I will be tomorrow, what the BSL sign for "sausages" is, what to learn next, when I will get to sleep and how long it has been since I last laughed so much that I hurt.

Still me, not a werewolf or anything like that. Just in case you were wondering. Mostly I spend it with friends, other times alone. I like time alone as much as I like time with friends.

I watch TV, I watch films, I like anime and hentai and fantasy and some horror and spanish films and many more.

Wouldn't be the most private thing about me if I put it here.

You live near enough to meet up for a chat over a hot chocolate to see if we are interested in one another.

Be aware, I don't reply often. Consider me rude if it suits, but it's probably because I'm just very busy.