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40 F Troy, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Not at all
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Think deeply, speak gently, love much, laugh a lot, work hard, give freely, and be kind.

I prefer 24-hour clocks. They just make sense.

INTP: one of the rarer personality types.

Also, tri-doshic. Really.

I am lipstick, dresses, and blue jeans and tees.

This section used to include a list of what I saw as my most prominent pros and cons. Later, I removed the cons, because (although honest) they seemed to indicate that I lacked confidence. After that, so many pros with no cons seemed to indicate that I lacked humility. So they had to go, too. And here we are.
What I’m doing with my life
Making the best of it.

Started a new blog at

Member of: - check it out :-)

Completed a six-week Berklee songwriting program through Coursera last summer, and became...addicted to MOOCs!

Work: Currently employed as a copywriter and marketing strategist at an online college in Albany, NY. Background in writing, editing, media production, information design, content strategy, marketing strategy, advertising, creative direction, UX design, and usability.

Hobbies: courses; reading; studying Buddhism and Science of Mind (aka Religious Science); design; punning; growing herbs, orchids, and other plants; reading and writing gregg shorthand; blind drawing; cartomancy; handwriting analysis; dream analysis; skeet shooting; singing; songwriting; being more charming and entertaining than my OkCupid profile.

Want to learn how to: play tennis, piano, and guitar; read braille; converse in sign language; crochet; compost; identify plants, trees, wood grains, birds, and butterflies; build furniture and sheltering structures; sew; cook; preserve herbs.

Want to learn more about: the Higgs boson; scientific explanations of extrasensory perception; barbershop harmony; creole languages; American folklore; drawing and comics; etymology; organic gardening; architectural design; civil engineering, especially bridge building; physics; math; logic; museum exhibit development.

Enjoy: learning; analyzing; ideating; making things with words, pictures, and/or sounds; walking; improving from the inside out.

Aim to: laugh more, travel abroad, serve others.

Life Goals: always changing. This is a pro and a con.
I’m really good at
...thinking, learning, writing, editing, daydreaming, wishing you the best, celebrating your wins.
The first things people usually notice about me that I fly in the face of all their expectations.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Now Reading:
- Journey to the Center of the Earth by Jules Verne
- A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur's Court by Mark Twain
- Origin of Species by Charles Darwin

Recent: Blood, Bones, and Butter
Recently Re-read: Around the World in 80 Days
One of My Favorite Books: The Great Bridge

Like to watch: educational TV (such as Military, History, Science, Nat Geo and other, similar networks), TCM, USA network, FOX news, live performance, Jennifer Lopez doing anything.

Like to listen to: Radiolab, Joel Osteen, Howard Stern, Charles Krauthammer, Deepak Chopra, How Stuff Works podcasts.
The six things I could never do without
1. Clouds & Sunshine
2. Melody & Harmony
3. Pen & Paper
4. Here & Now
5. Art & Science
6. The U.S. Constitution
7. Breaking the Rules
8. Tragedy & Time (Comedy)
I spend a lot of time thinking about purpose in life.
On a typical Friday night I am
...watching Grimm, and then falling asleep.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 21–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if feel like it.