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bellbottomblu

40 / F / bisexual / Seeing someone

San Antonio, Texas

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Kids
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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I am eclectic, vibrant, and clever.

My Self-Summary

I am in a great relationship with ManlyMatt, so I am not looking for anything serious...but I always want to make new friends (er, especially if they happen to be female and bisexual)...If you might like to get better acquainted, send a message...
I am intelligent, warm, passionate, honest and spontaneous...a responsible adult with a playful child inside. Those are qualities I would like to find in a friend, as well as similar social/political views and shared activities and interests. I enjoy people with thoughts and opinions, and the inclination to share them. A few of my favorite things: travel of any kind, great food, photography, antiques, fairs and festivals, wonderful conversations, shopping, movies, wine,Scrabble, good books,any kind of boating, roadtrips, museums, puzzles, the beach, my cats Alfie and Cupcake...I crave change and variety; my tastes in everything are very eclectic. I like everything from Elvis to Puccini, fancy bistros to dive bars, caviar to hot dogs. Being with me might occasionally be challenging, but it would never be dull! I am 5'9", with nice curves and a big smile. If my description appeals to you, and you can relate to my interests, I hope you'll get in touch.

What I’m doing with my life

Working for a living, traveling when time and money allow, meeting new people, experiencing new things

I’m really good at

listening, puzzles, being diplomatic, baking, sex, and making soap

The first things people usually notice about me

My big smile, open and friendly manner, and wit

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

A) Gone With the Wind, Ahab's Wife, Jane Eyre, Atlas Shrugged, Pride and Prejudice, Rebecca, The Buccaneers, Villette, White Oleander, Interview With the Vampire, Customs Violation, The Lovely Bones, Kitchen Confidential, Devil in the White City, The Big Bang, The Davinci Code, Ellen Foster, The Official Scrabble Dictionary, The Darwin Awards, The Highly Sensitive Person, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, The Razor's Edge...mysteries by Dorothy Sayers, Sara Paretsky, Sue Grafton, Anne Perry, Carolyn Hart...many more...

B)Gone With The Wind, Groundhog Day, The Scarlet Pimpernel, Love Actually, Amelie, The Sound of Music, Big Fish, Frida, Babette's Feast, The Right Stuff, Fried Green Tomatoes, North by Northwest, the Star Wars series, White Oleander, The Natural, Willy Wonka, The Prestige, O Brother Where Art Thou, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Pay It Forward, The Great Train Robbery, Life of Brian, Lemony Snicket's A Series of Unfortunate Events, White Christmas, Steel Magnolias, An Officer and a Gentleman, Rebecca, anything with Liam Neeson or Kevin Spacey...and many more

C)Most of it! Everything from Patsy Cline to AC/DC...rockabilly, Italian opera, alt. rock, blues, pop, ...my tastes are eclectic and my mind is open...Five For Fighting...Puccini...Eminem...Elvis...Eric Clapton...Coldplay...Debussy...K.T. Tunstall...Green Day...No Doubt...Johnny Mathis...Lenny Kravitz...Smetana...Verdi...Los Lonely Boys...Fisher...Barenaked Ladies...Eric Johnson...The Strokes...Sinatra...Blues Traveler...Glenn Miller...Gershwin...Sophie B. Hawkins...Brian Setzer... Two Tons of Steel...Lil' Bit & The Customatics...The only music that for me would be comparable to physical torture would be Kenny G., Anne Murray, Van Morrison, Jessica or Ashley Simpson...

D)Really good bread and cookies and pastry, and pretty much anything baked; fresh berries;interesting ethnic food; a great cheeseburger; cereal with milk (yes, I know that's kind of mundane)

The six things I could never do without

sunshine, passion, intelligent conversation, coffee, friends, fresh air

I spend a lot of time thinking about

life, and relationships

On a typical Friday night I am

Out at a bar or club with friends, dining out, at the movies, or home with a DVD

You should message me if

you're the kind of person I'd like to meet. Here's a hint---I would like to meet people who make me laugh; people who make me think...people with open minds and open hearts who aren't afraid to reveal themselves (I mean that in the figurative sense, LOL!)...people who are honest with others, and considerate of other people's feelings. I enjoy people who have a brain in their head, some aesthetic sense, and just plain good manners. I'd like to meet energetic, enthusiastic people who take initiative, who get out and do things, make plans, take trips, try new stuff...because that's what I like to do too. People who are never satisfied with the same ol' thing...people (like me) who think exploring new places/foods/ideas/activities are the reason why we are here. If you think an African safari sounds like a cool idea; if you will try any ethnic food there is; if you can appreciate any genre of music that is performed well; if you want to get as much out of this short life as you can---then we would probably hit it off.