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bellboy62

51 M Bellingham, WA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Rather not say
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
Busy professional with a goofy sense of humor and even goofier family hoping to find someone to share it all with.

I try to do all of the good Boy Scout character traits. I have kind and loyal down pretty well, but I have no idea why thrifty and reverent are even on the list. And why funny and goofy aren't. Maybe that's why I never earned very many merit badges.

For some reason this "personality" section says I'm "more aggressive." Don't know where they got that: I certainly don't see myself that way. I'm an INFP without much doubt!
What I’m doing with my life
Raising kids (half time) ... two in college and a third not far behind. The nest is emptying out. Time to think more about myself again!

I refuse to call it a mid-life crisis, and I am enjoying thinking about what comes next. Maybe it's to continue what I'm doing now, maybe it isn't. Maybe it's where I live now, maybe it's elsewhere. There are infinite possibilities!
I’m really good at
my work. parenting. reading, writing and arithmetic. and crossword puzzles. My pie crust needs improvement, but otherwise I'm very handy in the kitchen. I like to do the entire Thanksgiving dinner for my extended family, fills me of memories of Thanksgiving as a kid. My peanut sauce rocks.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm clueless. I have no idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Adventurous about food; willing to try about anything except organ meats. Ick. Steamers and mussels out on a deck with beer and good bread makes for a terrific summer afternoon. I prefer red wine to white, and dark beers. I love rustic breads, I only wish I could make them well. I love pig.

Books: Chabon, Bourdain, King, Franzen, something with a good story. My work has enough drama, so I prefer to read to be entertained, not educated.

Movies: Moneyball rocked. I really liked Argo. I admired the filmmaking and technology that was behind Hugo, but as a story it didn't move me. I usually prefer comedies to dramas. I think sometimes Adam Sandler and Will Farrell need to be reminded that not every idea they have is actually funny, but sometimes they get it right. I usually like Aaron Sorkin scripts and Judd Apatow movies.

Music: must have a beat. No rap, twangy country or trilly opera. I haven't found a radio station that matches me completely, so I'm usually bouncing around the dial. Tho I am an old soul, I like Foo Fighters, Radiohead, Cake, Green Day and some other stuff my kids listen to. The hip hop blended with 80's music? Not so much.

TV: I am totally bummed Friday Night Lights and No Reservations have ended. I like Modern Family, but it's starting to get stale. I try not to miss Big Bang Theory: I identify with Raj's struggles.
The six things I could never do without
1. pics and momentos
2. music
3. books
4. my kids' laughter
5. a gentle touch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the future. mine, my kids' and the world generally.
On a typical Friday night I am
Until now, I have been in a stadium or gym somewhere watchin' the kiddos. That's ending, so I've been exploring new things. I love our local improv club or hitting some live local music. If I'm feeling particularly adventurous I'm in Vancouver exploring the night life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll have to plead the fifth, at least at first, but I have my share of funny stories.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you haven't giggled lately.