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bellesaw

42 / F / Straight / Single

Chicago, Illinois

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 3:43am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Rather not say
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
One of my closest friends describes me as the coolest person she knows who is clueless about pop culture. I suppose many dichotomies exist in my life: I write well, but I don't read nearly enough; I am personable and outgoing, but I like to be on my own a lot; I have great cookware, but I rarely prepare meals at home; I spend a lot of time in bars, but I rarely drink, and the list goes on.

I love music. You can find me in pubs, at clubs, listening to symphonies, operas, and concerts. My interests are vast. I enjoy singer/songwriter music, folk, Irish, WXRT, instrumental, roots, etc. I take lessons (currently guitar) at the Old Town School of Folk Music, where I am a student, volunteer, member and donor. I am proud of my involvement at the School. (I take my interests seriously.)

I am a committed left-winger. I try to be open-minded about a lot of things, including politics. This means that I will listen to your opinions with interest, but I won't necessarily agree with them.

I am very interested in the arts in general. You will never have to twist my arm to get me to attend a gallery opening, museum special collection, dance recital, theatre performance, film, or concert. I have enough knowledge to converse about art, but I still have the wonder of experiencing it for the first time.

Many people are surprised how much I like to watch sports. I can get completely wrapped up in watching a great tennis match. I love basketball. Baseball is not boring. Hockey is fun. I sincerely invite you to teach me about American football. For some reason I've managed to live in this country for more than 40 years without ever learning how football works. I guess I didn't try hard enough. Educate me please!

Travel. Don't get me started. I tend to be a bit impulsive about flying around the planet. Whenever I can rub two pennies together I buy a ticket. Admittedly, I am not much of an adventure traveler (although that could be argued, depending how you define "adventure"). I am not much of a relaxer either -- my beach tolerance is limited -- but I don't always need to go to a big city on vacation either.

I'm glad that you're still reading. If you want to know more, please write to me. Thanks.
What I’m doing with my life
For work, I am a technical writer and manager of great people. For fun, I take guitar classes, volunteer for various organizations, hang out with my little niece and visit with friends and family.
I’m really good at
Building IKEA furniture. Editing resumes. Finding the right gift. Applying mascara. Eating pizza.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have a wicked sense of humor. Some people notice my eyes (they're green).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Classics
Movies - Indies and foreign films
Shows - Dramas
Music - Alt, Singer/Songwriter, Irish, Baroque, Opera, you name it
Food - Spicy (Ethiopian, Indian, Thai). Also love Mexican, Italian, Chinese, Mediterranean, and other cuisines. Yum.
The six things I could never do without
Friends and Family
Passport
Pizza
Coffee
Music
Pen
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends in the local pub.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
One time I was detained in a foreign airport for several hours and was nearly deported.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 33–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You are single, interested in a multi-faceted relationship, open with your feelings, smart, funny, creative and ready for some zest in your life.