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bemmet

52 M Darmstadt, Germany

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
A rooster crows only when it sees the light. Put him in the dark and he'll never crow. I have seen the light and I'm crowing.

-Muhammad Ali
What I’m doing with my life
My job is about solving problems and finding strategies in the software industry. I design software.

Privately, I spend a lot of time reinventing myself, and keeping in contact with friends.
I’m really good at
Math, languages, and a special flavor of odd joke, reading between the lines. I like observing details.

Also cooking. I play the piano and I sing a lot.
The first things people usually notice about me
People peer at me a lot out of the corner of their eyes in public places. Happens to everyone of course, but I think very often to me. Something about my face makes them curious, not sure what.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am very well read. I go through phases. Lots of sciency stuff.

When I was 19 me and a buddy started a venture in Lenox Massachusetts that quickly failed. My buddy said, "I know an incredible restaurant on the shore of Lake Pontchartrain." I said, "I love Cajun food, let's go eat!" So we took the remaining cash and drove down New Orleans.

It's 3,000 (5,000 km) mile round trip from Western Massachusetts to Southern Louisiana, and we only had two tapes in the car. One was this Iranian diva that sung haunting very high-pitched, nerve-jangling arias, and the Bob Marley's album Survival. We mostly listened to Mob Barley. I swear I know every note and tambourine rattle on that album. Highly recommended. Or maybe it's just the Stockholm Syndrome ;-)

For a while I read a lot of books about politics, but I've stopped now because US politics have gotten so awful.

I've read several Salman Rushdie books; The Satanic Verses, The Moor's Last Sigh, Midnight's Children. I've been reading a lot of Indian stuff recently.

One time I was driving down the Autobahn spacing out and I realized I was feeling very angry at someone. Then I thought about it and I realized it was the villainous sergeant in "The Naked and the Dead"! I can't remember any other book touching me that personally. Norman Mailer got back from the Pacific Theatre of WWII (fighting the Japanese from island to island) when he was in his early 20s. He sat down immediately and wrote a big fat anti-war book, more or less in one go. Very intense read, very vivid characters. Tip of the hat to i_am_amylynne

Recent scifi: Iain Banks, Neal Stephanson, Stephen Baxter, Alistair Reynolds.

I secretly like watching romantic comedies. I'm such a girl sometimes ;-)
The six things I could never do without
Silliness. I am rarely serious, no matter what the situation. This has caused problems from time to time but hey.

Reading material

Freedom. I would be absolutely useless as a soldier, I don't take orders well.

Change. I think that's what I like most about the computer business. Just when you think you've got it all figured out, everything changes.

Love. I'm kind of a softie at heart Awww

Being ME. Sounds corny because it is. For example I write a lot about my job in this profile. If I didn't identify with what I do, I would just...stop doing it. That's just the way I roll. Fortunately I get paid for stuff I find amusing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Other people and the puzzles I'm working on, mostly job related. Hmmm, that's a bit vague.

I make money by knowing stuff and having ideas, more than by actually doing much.

I like to think about what makes other people tick -- ask myself "Why did he just say that?" It's a hobby.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have lots of male friends, but I much prefer the company of women.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You like sharp conversation. I am amazed at the number of interesting people I've met here so far.