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benahammer

31 M Bedford, NH

My Details

Last Online
Aug 4
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I don't normally worry about the past (what is done is done.) but I do try to learn from it.

I'm somewhat outgoing(I prefer small gathering to big parties.). I always try to be as honest as possible( this has lead me to be tactless at times. I’m working on that. )

I’m an autodidact so I try to find things to learn from every experience and not make the same mistake too many times.

I try to give gifts when I feel like they are not expected. I feel like it gives a bigger impact and makes me feel better when I don't feel like I was forced to do it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved up to NH for free state project. plan on starting a podcast of some sort once I come up with a topic.

I love to learn new things. currently I’m trying to better my self by learning to cook and taking yoga.

for leisure I like to play pen and paper rpgs like D&D, playing computer games, watching shows(mostly anime) and board games .

I want to get out more and do more, try new things,i.e. hiking, camping, seeing theater or something like that. I think like it something I would partner to do them with thought. I have been on a cruses in the past and I want to go on more it was lots of fun.

I have been thinking I might give indoor rock climbing soon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Working with computer/technology.

I find it kind of hard to list more than that. the more you know the more you learn how much you don’t know.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
one of the things lots of people have commented on is my voice
(good for a podcast, sexy)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't normally play much music(only kinds I don’t like so much is rap and country) .

books. lord of the rings, I also recall going through Asimov's the foundation trilogy fast.

I have not had much time to read late but i’m working my way thru audible.

I love to eat Asian food, sushi, stir fry, thai,
Indian (pry not counted as Asian but it in that subcontent.)
and seafood.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This question I can seem to get why its here.
if I answer it serious ie air.. ect its of no use.
if I answer it what I would not want to do without feel like I’m putting in something wrong (every person would be shocked what they can leave without if they had to. I want to hold on to life till the very end. ).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
science, tech and their implications on the future

I also have been doing a lot of 'soul' searching for lack of a better word.
ie Thinking about myself what I can work on to improve myself and my life(happy with it right now but always room things to be better).

lastly what I’m eating.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
normally I like to go hang out with friends and chat but lately I have been busy so I have spent it trying to catch up on things. I try to never miss my friend’s podcast.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
hard for me to think of anything because in person almost anything asked will be answer
so I will go with I’m dyslexic.
it make writing in a way that makes me not look like an idiot frustratingly long.

also, I have a history of addiction in my family(never been a issue with me, but I sill like to error on the safe side. also I prefer to be in control of my own mind.) so I don't drink but don't care if other do.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're a woman who is smart and willing to speak your mind. who like geeky stuff like I do or is open to giving them a try.