Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy

bencaseyscott

24 M Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:19am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Often
Religion
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Being succinct is lazy.

I'd prefer to over explicate myself longwindedly and unclearly to cast a broader sense of appeasement to all of my readers. By the way, I consider you a reader now. You are not a potential date; not yet. That role is reserved for those who have made a decision to read my profile, compared our questions and answers, flipped through my photos, and have inquired more about me personally. That much is on you.

As a reader, you can learn about me in great detail on the internet, as I have cleverly donned the same alias on all forms of social media, which doubles as my birth name. I have nothing to hide, so far as the internet goes. Otherwise you could take a leap of faith and contact me. I prefer this method. I can leak out more artful and well maintained versions of the truth in casual conversation.

Seeing as this is about me, though, I'll cut to the chase.

I wear a myriad of faces. My day to day life is a zoetic flume ride, as predictable as I seem to think things are, I am surprised now and again by my choices and the repercussions I meet.

I've taken a liking to Chicago living. I feel that I may take root here. I love the western charm and the pragmatic spirit of the people here. What especially appeals to me is the progressive nature of the city. As torn apart by violence as we are, I find that city living boasts an iconic face of hope and pride that I admire.

I am enamored largely with film and other moving pictures. I occupy most of my time either thinking about or working with some form of the craft. Story telling in general is, in my opinion, one of the most worth while duties our society graces with acknowledgment. To make a living of retailing the accounts of our world is my dream.

I have a penchant for fantasy; the romantic ideals in nature expressed through music, literature, film, paintings and narratives in general influence a lot of my passions. I muse often over the ambiguous and bewildering. I think that life is groovy.

I like my steak rare. I like women without makeup. I need cream and sugar in my coffee. I can afford a simple lifestyle. I like going to bed very late at night. I talk to myself. I have vivid dreams. I'm a dog person. No Coke, Pepsi. I think everything I say is funny.

Maybe I'm weird; most people may think so. I'm glad I have the mind not to pass that same judgement onto other people. Perhaps after you've finished reading this profile, there'll be reason for you to get to know me. You may even feel that I am in fact weird. I just may be. In fact, I embrace it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a day job. This is not what I'm doing with my life. This is what I'm doing to my life presently.

More than that though I am a writer. I operate cameras and capture the human condition in my sights. I draw and scribble wildly, never with the mind to frame anything.

I go biking everywhere. I forget to hydrate though. I am in serious need of someone to race me everywhere.

I eat gyros about everyday. It's getting to be a problem. Not.

I listen to music in the shower, audiobooks before bed, podcasts while I eat and more music when I'm bored. I'm a great listener.

I visit the movie theater when I can bother, which is often.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at communicating. I'm hyper articulate and have organized thoughts.

I'm really good at jokes. With a quick wit like mine it's almost a curse with how many opportunities I have to give up at jokes due to circumstances.

I'm really good at filmmaking. If a film set was a game, I'd be Mario. I can pretty much do it all.

I'm really good at dancing like no one's watching. Sadly, I only have one move. Flail.

Finally I'm really good at being a man. When I know what it is I need to do, I don't fuss.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall. I have blue eyes that are adorned with long thick eyelashes. No I do not wear mascara. Yes I am asked if I wear mascara. I have a very rich, healthy voice. I have a recognizable energy. When the feeling hits me, I can grow a very nice beard; this is a lot of people's favorite.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Stranger, Fahrenheit 451, Where the Sidewalk Ends, Call of Cthulu, Night Angel Trilogy, The Hobit, Darth Plagueis, The Banality of Evil, Dune, and The Long Walk

Movies: Brazil!, Moulin Rouge, The Thin Red Line, Dog Day Afternoon, Get Shorty, Master of the Flying Guillotine, Funny Games, Harvey, The Outsiders, and Paris, Texas

Shows: The Simpsons, Dexter, The Venture Brothers, Breaking Bad, Face Off, Adventure Time, Space Ghost Coast to Coast, Cosmos, The Daily Show, and The Walking Dead

Music: Jean Sibelius, Alexander Scriabin, Richard Wagner, The The, The Cars, ELO, T. Rex, Daft Punk, Beastie Boys, and Phish

Food: Cookies, Sushi, Gyros, Asparagus, Kiwi, Crab Rangoon, Steak, Pizza, Ice Cream, and Pancakes
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. A Handy Dandy Pen
2. The Internet
3. Dreams
4. A Shower
5. Candy
6. The Last Word
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I occupy myself mulling over how to better myself. I wonder what to wonder next. I daydream about people I know and interactions I've made. I muse over intriguing stories. I revere the bold and passionate. I ponder what other people are pondering. I deliberate every decision. But mostly I think about how to still my mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday is a day like any other. If this is to ask what I do when I have no obligations to fill, then there's no rhyme or reasoning to my plans. I do, however, subscribe to the belief of 'the more the merrier' in most cases.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm Obi wan kenobi for Halloween
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should message me if you want to pursue a career in filmmaking or appreciate films immensely.