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23 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:07pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hey, Nice to meet you! I'm Ben.
I'm a filmmaker, an artist, a business man, and a great ally.
I feel no more alive than when working on a movie set.
I love anything worth laughing at.
I make a living off of telling stories.
If you let me, I'll talk your ear off.
I want to change the world, one person at a time.
I do not breathe fire.
I like myself.
I like being single.
I can be sesquipedalian.
I'm on a life long journey to be enlightened.
I love company.
I love solitude.
I use my parent's HBO Go. All of the time.
I love to play music.
I like running and walking through the city.
I have an insatiable sweet tooth.
Youtube has saved my life.
I need help with fashion sense.
I'm a novice nerd.
Any pop culture faux pas I commit is not meant to offend.
Uh oh. I think I'm a hipster.
What I’m doing with my life
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2014 is my year of new things. I'm working at writing different subjects and researching ideas that are completely alien to me. I'm embracing more philosophies and lifestyles. I'm working as many sets as possible. I'm drawing and dancing every night. I'm complaining less. I'm getting out more. I'm learning new songs. I'm writing new songs. I'm singing in the shower. I'm cataloguing my dreams. I'm waking up earlier than the sun comes up. I'm trying new flavors of gum. I'm going to the gym 4 days a week. I'm playing more games. I'm meeting new people. I'm being a better person.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning new things
Telling bad jokes
Discussing abstract concepts
Being a goon (whatever that is)
Making weird sounds
Using body language
Dancing like no one is watching
Arguing a point and not a person
Petting animals
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have an easily recognizable energy. I am a tad. bit. weird. If I am not in my usual mood or I am trying my hardest to reign in my spastic limbs, people might remark that I am particularly tall or lanky. Occasionally my deep voice earns some attention. Another common comment is on my blue eyes adorned by strangely long eye lashes, but those are usually brought up in closer encounters. Also I have shaved my beard. No one has noticed yet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Shel Silverstein, Albert Camus, Ray Bradbury, or H.P. Love Craft

Movies: Brazil!, Moulin Rouge, Blue Velvet, Dog Day Afternoon, Thin Red Line, and Paris, Texas

Shows: Archer, Louie, Batman: The Animated Series, The Walking Dead, and The Venture Brothers

Music: The The, Alexander Scriabin, Jean Sibelius, Aesop Rock, Liltommyj, and Jim Guthrie

Food: Cookies, Candy bars, Chocolate Milk, Oranges, Kiwis, and Steak
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Handy Dandy Pen
2. The Internet
3. Ukulele
4. Strangely, pockets
5. Humming if that's a thing
6. Dreams
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about what other people are thinking. I often watch complete strangers and make up complete stories about where they're going, where they've been, what they're doing and who they know. I sometimes think other people think the exact same things I do and I spend whole conversations with myself musing how in someone's mind they are thinking a full conversation that compliments my every thought. I think about possible stories I can tell and muse about how folklore originated. I think about how I may be wrong about everything that I am certain of. I spend lots of hours thinking about ways to tell other people things I will never have a chance to say. But mostly I think about how to still my mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical is a word I would currently like to discourage. Some days, I don't even know what day of the week I'm in. But I'm up for anything and I will always include the philosophy of "the more, the merrier" into my plans.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Heavy eye makeup is a huge turn off for me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You should message me. I want to strike a conversation but I'm terribly awkward with breaking the ice. So just message me. It's a simple way to make a new friend.