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30 F San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Today – 11:29am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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I just moved back to SF from NYC, and I'm so happy to once again be surrounded by its awe-inspiring natural beauty and intellectual creativity. Though I have to say, I do miss the convenience and functional transit of NYC. Muni just doesn't quite cut it. And maybe one of these days, I'll be able to order a sandwich here after 10 pm. A girl can dream.
What I’m doing with my life
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Navigating the fine line between living in the here and now and working toward a more awesome future. Spending a good chunk of my daytimes helping to make the world a better place at a progressive think tank.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Remembering song lyrics and other random factoids, keeping a level head, figuring out fun things to explore/do/make/see/eat/drink/experience.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'd guess my smile, but I suppose it would depend on what you were looking for.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like my fiction with disjointed plots and flowing prose and my non-fiction quirky and incisive. Recent favorites include: The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, American Gods, The Signal and the Noise.

I'm a big podcast fan (This American Life, Radio Lab, Savage Love, The Moth). I was recently on an episode of Ask Me Another. I was eliminated in the finals on a question about Miley Cyrus. Somehow I'm okay with this.

I like all the usual indie rock/folk suspects, and I'm also a fan of anything I can dance to (especially blues).

I'm always happy to try new kinds of food, but I have a few trusty standbys (strawberries, chocolate, sushi, whisk(e)y, craft beer).

Internet reading: xkcd, wondermark, questionable content, laughing squid, gothamist/sfist, eater, mcsweeney's.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(1) awesome people to spend time with
(2) chances to learn new and exciting things
(3) a dynamic city to explore
(4) doses of nature
(5) a sense of purpose
(6) occasional diversions (the's so big)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
connection (in all its forms: to people, to places, in dance), how much of the economy is resting on layers of entirely made-up concepts (and for how long this is sustainable), whether there's any way to make the federal government functional again, what exactly society's metrics of success/intelligence reflect, different approaches to structuring interactions and relationships, assorted law (and science and other) geekery, what sorts of hijinks I can get up to this week
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
*could be out blues dancing
*could be out grabbing a drink or dinner with friends
*could be at some crazy party around the city
*could be headed somewhere for the weekend
You should message me if
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You're all about experiencing as much of life as possible. You like thinking and discussing and learning and exploring. You've (by and large) got your shit together. You believe in (and practice) treating others with kindness and respect. For the more-than-friends side of the spectrum: you're GGG.

I'm always looking for awesome people who'd like to join me for an assortment of the following: checking out museums, watching theater, hiking, drinking awesome whisk(e)y, drinking awesome beer, discussing cool things we've been working on/reading about/thinking about, wandering new neighborhoods, trying new foodstuffs, going to shows, and just generally reveling in life's wonder.