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benjamin3775

39 Shiloh, NJ Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I wanna be an artist/photographer/chef/ organic farmer when I grow up. Maybe if I ever win the lottery.
I'm a creative person. Really enjoy the creative process.
I like cooking, food, trying new restaurants photography, art & design...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working in NE Philly. Fixing up my farmhouse in rural south jersey. Tinkering with a 4x5 view camera. Building random
furniture. Painting little paintings. Drawing little drawings.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
fixing things, making things, cooking stuff
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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TV: breaking bad, house of cards, the Simpsons, Tosh, DailyShow (that sounds like I watch a lot of TV)
Radio: NPR, car talk, this American Life
Books: I read 2/4 books at a time and usually don't finish all if them. Right now it's, The stand, Why there is no God and All american poem. Oh and cookbooks. Always cookbooks.
Music: Everything. Indy, rock, rap, jazz, alternative country...
The national, avett bros, Daughter, Hiss Golden Messenger, Wilco, the Civil Wars, my morning jacket, head in heart, Jonny Flynn, Shakey Graves, jayz, band of horses, bill withers, Ray Charles...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my sons
wine
music
water
a creative outlet
nature (the woods, the beach, open fields...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"Who knows how to make love stay?

1. Tell love you are going to Junior's Deli on Flatbush Avenue in Brooklyn to pick up a cheesecake, and if loves stays, it can have half. It will stay.

2. Tell love you want a momento of it and obtain a lock of its hair. Burn the hair in a dime-store incense burner with yin/yang symbols on three sides. Face southwest. Talk fast over the burning hair in a convincingly exotic language. Remove the ashes of the burnt hair and use them to paint a moustache on your face. Find love. Tell it you are someone new. It will stay.

3. Wake love up in the middle of the night. Tell it the world is on fire. Dash to the bedroom window and pee out of it. Casually return to bed and assure love that everything is going to be all right. Fall asleep. Love will be there in the morning.”

_Tom Robbins
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a horrible speller S-P-E-L
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