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28 Ballwin, MO Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 12, 2014
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Working on university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hi, I'm Ben.
First, and most importantly, I love Jesus. I try to live in such a way as to bring glory to God in everything that I think, do and say; obviously it doesn't always happen, but it is definitely the biggest priority in my life. I've been a Christian since I was very young, but continue to strive to grow in the Lord every day. I'm looking for a woman with a similar mindset (or heartset, I suppose...I don't think heartset is a word, but just roll with it) and values who loves kids.

I'm a pretty easy going guy (I feel like everyone on here says that they're easy going, but really, I am!). I'm laid back, and can find humor in almost anything; I tend to be pretty sarcastic and like to poke fun at everybody, and I'd like to find someone who can take a little back-and-forth, and even dish it out on occasion. I'm pretty easy to be with; people tell me that they're comfortable around me. I'd be equally at ease discussing obscure star wars facts as I would be shooting hoops or watching the game with some buddies. I enjoy reading, playing most sports, martial arts, and spending time with those I love, and I believe that it's not what you do, it's who you do it with that makes something worthwhile as well as enjoyable. I'm affectionate, but not clingy. I try to be thoughtful. I love children. I enjoy making people laugh. I wear socks that match, and I love my mom.

Athleticism in a girl is a plus. I mean I'm not looking to get schooled on the basketball court or anything, but a little proficiency at sports is nice.
I like wit...not saying that's always what you'll get from me; I'll be honest, I throw down some really bad puns every now and again, but I do like girls who are quick on their (mental) feet.
I prefer (and respect!) modesty.
In terms of makeup, to me, less is more.
I like a girl who wouldn't mind staying in sometimes, putting on sweats, and just watching Office reruns. I'm not a hermit, but sometimes that sort of thing is nice.
Good spelling and grammar is pretty attractive.

I know this was pretty scattered, but hopefully you've gotten a little better picture of who I am and who I'm looking for. Thanks for taking the time to read it, and feel free to message me with any questions/comments/concerns/knock-knock jokes.
What I’m doing with my life
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In addition to going to school for Intelligence and Computer Science and working full time, I am coming up on three years in the Air Force Reserve. I have an apartment by myself, and am working on preparing for the future (wife/kids/house/pony/etc.) by saving as much as I can, and by getting a couple useful degrees so that I can provide for my family.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding sharp edges in the dark with my shins.
Making puns.
Making toast.
Buttering toast.
Dropping toast and having it land butter side down.
Ultimate frisbee.
Hacky sack.
Despising Crocs. I don't care how comfy they are, they look ridiculous!
Snuggies. See above.
Having a weakness for girls in plaid shirts.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Physically, probably my bald, shiny head. Otherwise, the fact that I am almost always positive, upbeat, and smiling.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Bible (everyone says that, but seriously, I love reading it!)
anything by C.S. Lewis, J.R.R. Tolkien, Tim Keller, Francis Chan, J.I. Packer, John MacArthur, John Piper, R.C Sproul

Lord of the Rings
Bourne Series
Star Trek
Star Wars
Tangled (don't judge)
...many more

The Office
How I Met Your Mother
Arrested Development
Parks and Rec

Relient K
Steven Curtis Chapman
John Mayer
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Obvious things aside, and in no particular order:
1. Jeans and hoodie weather (and of course, jeans and hoodies)
2. QDoba (I'm partial to the naked chicken queso burrito)
3. Cheese (it goes with EVERYTHING)
4. Good running shoes (gotta work off all those burritos and cheese, right?)
5. The United Kingdom (have you been there? it's gorgeous!)
6. Parenthetical expressions (clearly)
You should message me if
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I don't date just to date, and I'm looking for a wife, not a girlfriend. That being said, I am in no hurry. I won't rush, and I won't settle, but I will pursue the Lord's will for my life. If that works for you, and you've made it through my profile without groaning or rolling your eyes TOO many times, shoot me an email, I'd love to hear from you.