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benjapin

30 M Cardiff, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Mar 3
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Welsh (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), Czech (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Not the loudest (or tallest) of people. Not easily offended and have a pretty dry sense of humour. I'm a freelance conductor/composer/piano teacher/musical dogsbody. I also like cheesecake and have daft dreams about being a film director.

I am short, quiet, and a bit blind
What I’m doing with my life
See above... Sorry if you can't look upwards...
I’m really good at
Playing pianos, singing and general musical noise-making.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music...

I'm always looking for new music to get into, although I really can't get on with much chart pop or "RnB", although everyone likes some cheese now and then.
I like prog rock and anything a bit experimental, but then again, I like a dose of Ben Folds or Rufus Wainwright too. Love old jazz, particularly Billie Holiday.
I have a bit of a soft spot for Chopin and Romantic symphonies (ie Sibelius/Mahler) but I also like screechy, noisy modern music. I'm also a big fan of early music too. The earlier the better. If it's wearing monks habits then perfect. Also loving British folk music too.

Movies...
I'm a real geek when it comes to films. Again, very eclectic taste. I especially like stuff that's a bit different though. Big fan of David Lynch, silent films, black and white musicals. What I'm not a fan of are chick-flicks, mindless boys action films, badly made horror films, or predictable comedies that everyone else usually finds hilarious.

Books...
I don't get much time these days to read, but I love books. I started collecting them when I was 12, so I have a fair few. A few authors that I can think of at the moment who I enjoy are Neil Gaiman, George Orwell, Peter Ackroyd, Steven King and Thomas Hardy.
The six things I could never do without
Books, films, music, people, air, water, the usual...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what the hell to tell people on OK Cupid that I'm thinking about. Mostly boring stuff though, sorry. I'm usually trying to piece together ideas for film projects or stressing about the million things that aren't being ticked off my to do list...
On a typical Friday night I am
Not dressing up as a woman.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating