I love opera and go often to local performances. So how do you look in a tux? How about a tuxspeedo? Really? Wow that's not easy to carry off. Well, keep reading sailor...
Just so you know, I have no interest in ambushing anyone with my real self on the first date, much less the fiftieth. My intent here is to be honest about myself so that your time and my time are not wasted.
As I said, I am a gender non-conformist. I was born male but my appearance is feminine. I am not on hormones. To me, drag is many things: a political statement, a style preference, a way of expressing my individuality, my dual nature, as well as my distaste for chest-beating macho nonsense, but the bottom line is simply this: it's who I am, who I've always been. I'm looking for someone who loves and celebrates this part of me.
I am currently a bartender at the Performing Arts Center and an organizer for my labor union, UNITE HERE! We organize Hotel and other service workers. I am passionate about social justice, and very active in the local scene! I love rallies and demonstrations, and I firmly believe in the transforming power of collective action!!! Si Se Puede!
I do not do hard drugs, but I smoke weed legally and regularly. I don't have to have it in the situation always, but I do it often.
I am looking for someone who is generally up-beat, loves to laugh (or roll your eyes) at silly, often inappropriate (I can relate anything to sex or poo) jokes and who treats myself and everyone with dignity and respect. I am also looking for someone who can have fun without having to spend a bundle or go cliff diving or something. I love board games!
My usual diversions are playing video games and watching streaming video on Netflix! If you like gaming, that's hot. If you're not into it, I can do it on my own time. No one should ever have to compete with a machine for attention!
I am perfectly happy being single, so I have no intention of settling for someone who is not really right for me. That's why I'm here.