Just so you know, I have no interest in ambushing anyone with my real self on the first date, much less the fiftieth. My intent here is to be honest about myself so that your time and my time are not wasted.
First and foremost, I must say I am a transgender human being, a cross-dresser, not a transsexual. I wear women's clothing daily, and I think I have a pretty cute style. To me, drag is many things, a political statement, a style preference, a way of expressing my individuality, my dual nature, as well as my distaste for chest-beating macho douchebaggery, but the bottom line is simply this: it's who I am, who I've always been. I'm looking for someone who loves and celebrates this part of me.
Whatever I am wearing, I can be both masculine and feminine. I like musical theater, the color pink and the movie "Fame," but in many ways I am very much a "guy." Being a Gemini, I often embrace contradiction, but I can also be very logical, which is itself a contradiction. See what I mean?
I am involved in the labor and LGBT rights movement. My union is very active and feisty, so I will try to recruit you for something at some point!
I do not do hard drugs, but I smoke weed legally and regularly. I don't have to have it in the situation always, but I do it often. My purpose is to be honest, but I have been told by friends that if you say yes to the drug question people assume you're a crack-head.
I like nice people, and good manners are a plus, but that doesn't mean you have to be uptight. I use profanity often. I am looking for someone who is generally up-beat, loves to laugh (or roll your eyes) at silly jokes and who treats myself and everyone with dignity and respect. I am also looking for someone who can have fun without having to spend a bundle or go cliff diving or something. I love scrabble!
My usual diversions are playing video games and watching streaming video on Netflix! If you like gaming, that's hot. If you're not into it, I can do it on my own time. No one should ever have to compete with a machine for attention!
I am perfectly happy being single, so I have no intention of settling for someone who is not really right for me. That's why I'm here.