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benjie4747

27 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 28
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
If you're good to life, hopefully life will be good back to you. Trying to live by that motto, doing work in education and having a fun time at it.

Lived in China, California, Boston, Colorado, and now New York.

Former teacher, current nerd helping to direct software projects for schools. Making the most of the city.
What I’m doing with my life
I manage software projects to help schools, and get to play with lots of "devices" as a consequence.
I’m really good at
Listening, Rock Climbing, Negotiating prices for rickshaws attached to motorbikes (this is not a joke), Cooking (or at least I like to think so), Math (I'm a nerd), home improvement (carpentry, electrical, dry wall), and I'm told I'm good at small talk.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair. I'm a ginger, though not the creepy kind -- just the day walker variety here. Bonus points if you know what I'm talking about.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Curious Incident of a Dog at Night Time, Flannery O'Connor, Harry Potter, Tess of the D'urbervilles (Roman Polanski kind of ruined it for me though)

TV: Modern Family, The Big Bang Theory, Dexter, Golden Girls, CSI, Daily Show, 30 Rock, and of course... Strangers With Candy, got to love Amy Sedaris! Also, a bit of a closet sci-fi nerd, so I'll let you guess / ask about those ones.

Music: Mumford and Sons, Florence and the Machines, Nicki Manaj, , John Denver, K'Naan, Robyn, MGMT, Lorde, and many more... yeah, it's eclectic.

Food: Ethiopian, Mexican. I'll really eat anything. So far the strangest things have been donkey and dog hot pot (separately).
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order:

Good Food
Good Wine
Good Beer
Passport
A Kitchen
The people I care about
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where to live (hopefully for more than 2 years this time), social justice, and why the NSA didn't give me security clearance but offered me a job.
On a typical Friday night I am
Dinner with friends, or trying out a relaxing bar / lounge.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to grab a beer with me and maybe play big buck hunter.