Disclaimer: I am currently part of a long term, ethically non-monogamous relationship, Monogamy is not on the table.
If you're not scared off yet, read on!
As you might have noticed, I'm kind of an irreverent dude. I love intelligent people with a good sense of humor. I have an unusual lifestyle and unusual sexual appetites.
I'm extremely kinky - and I'm happy to openly discuss my kinks with you.
I'm also very involved in the broader kink community - Mainly with respect to rope bondage.
This stuff is my social life and my artistic life - not just my sex life.
Here's a blog of some of the stuff I do: Http://benjmhart.tumblr.com
Outside of that, I love exploring abandoned buildings, reading, art, films, exercise, and finding cool restaurants.
I'm a tall guy who likes short girls with High IQ's and low morals.
I'm fortunate in that I can even pay my bills with that philosophy, so I guess i'm doing something right.
I'm a fun seeker and a pleasure delayer.
capturing the human spirit with the written word.
making lists of things.
the jedi mind trick
making food salty (generally by adding massive amounts of salt)
good old marxism
Providing food for my people
cooking, when I feel like it
William S. Burroughs
Paul Thomas Anderson
She wants Revenge
Bat for lashes
rage against the machine
Rocky horror picture show
Pizza and wings
BEER, especially Big Rock
Tegan and Sara
A wild eclectic assortment of music
Leg of lamb
bad chinese food
Kiss of the spider woman
hedwig and the angry inch
strawberries in January
eternal sunshine of the spotless mind
Leaving las vegas
john Carpenter's memoirs of an invisible man
Ace of Base
The Barenaked Ladies
My insatiable sex drive (see human condition)
My stupidly high IQ
Honorable mentions: girls in black eyeliner, electronic gadgets (technology FIEND), Nihilism
but mostly girls
also, I'm a hopeless romantic
also also, I have a time machine.
also also also, I'm kinky as hell, so have an open mind.
if you're a quirky nerd lookin for someone who appreciates quirkiness and nerdiness.
or if you're mildly unhinged.
or just looking for someone who can hold up their end of a conversation.
or if you're an attractive female version of myself from an alternate universe. Ideally, please come from a universe where the men don't get pregnant, as we will inevitably have sex with our alternate selves.
-to the haters, don't act like you wouldn't!