TL:DR I'm a freak, I want romance, please have an open mind.
Kinky.
Nerdy.
Arty.
Socialist.
Deal with it
I could go on and describe facts about my like my height (6'2") or my eye color(blue) etc..
But I'm sure every other guy turns this into a bragfest hoping you'll read something you like. I don't like talking too much about myself, or telling people good or rich I am.
I will say this: I'm a professional pervert, fetish party organizer, writer, ropemaker and I also occasionally work in the technology field. I'm passionate about my work, my (unusual) hobbies, my friends and my family. I have a great circle of friends. I have good taste but i'm as comfortable in shorts and a T shirt as I am in a suit and tie, or a leather bodysuit . I'm challenging and a bit of a handful. I love to go on adventures and travel, even around the city as I'm still fairly new here. I'm also a huge movie lover. I can stay up all night with drinks and a movie and chatting. I think conversation is a lost art form.
I'm looking for someone playful and energetic, and very open minded who can keep up with my antics. I'm looking for something laid back and casual where we have fun and let things happen naturally. Extra points if you're a little strange (interesting) or morbid (funny)
If you can't carry on a conversation or you're just interested in money, don't waste my time.
"All I know is, I just want to live long enough to stay young and beautiful FOREVER" -Pochsy
Let me be clear about one more thing: I'm a very kinky guy. My artwork is usually focused on alternative sexuality (as is my sex life). I tie people up with rope at a performance level, like full body rope suspension in midair. I do a lot of other things. Before you judge, take a look at my work here: http://BenJMHart.Tumblr.com
I also have a blog for my vanilla photography here: http://Lightpaints.Tumblr.com
This is NOT directly sexual for me, actually I consider rope bondage more like art than like sexy funtime. My social life and hobbies relate to this stuff as much or more than my sex drive. but yes, my sex drive is a little unusual too. I would call myself a lifestyle dominant. I can 'do' plain-jane sex, but it's not my default setting, and honestly, not really what I'm looking for.
Finally, I'm not a man whore and probably won't have sex with you just because you're curious. I'm not into friends with benefits situations. Right now I want someone I can date casually, who has some growth potential.
When I DO commit to people, my preferred situation is polyfidelitous or polyamorous, not open relationships (seems common on this site). Read: I am involved with some folks, monogamy isn't on the table.
If you're confused by anything you've read so far, maybe watch this: http://bit.ly/uNOAwp
Kinky.
Nerdy.
Arty.
Socialist.
Deal with it
I could go on and describe facts about my like my height (6'2") or my eye color(blue) etc..
But I'm sure every other guy turns this into a bragfest hoping you'll read something you like. I don't like talking too much about myself, or telling people good or rich I am.
I will say this: I'm a professional pervert, fetish party organizer, writer, ropemaker and I also occasionally work in the technology field. I'm passionate about my work, my (unusual) hobbies, my friends and my family. I have a great circle of friends. I have good taste but i'm as comfortable in shorts and a T shirt as I am in a suit and tie, or a leather bodysuit . I'm challenging and a bit of a handful. I love to go on adventures and travel, even around the city as I'm still fairly new here. I'm also a huge movie lover. I can stay up all night with drinks and a movie and chatting. I think conversation is a lost art form.
I'm looking for someone playful and energetic, and very open minded who can keep up with my antics. I'm looking for something laid back and casual where we have fun and let things happen naturally. Extra points if you're a little strange (interesting) or morbid (funny)
If you can't carry on a conversation or you're just interested in money, don't waste my time.
"All I know is, I just want to live long enough to stay young and beautiful FOREVER" -Pochsy
Let me be clear about one more thing: I'm a very kinky guy. My artwork is usually focused on alternative sexuality (as is my sex life). I tie people up with rope at a performance level, like full body rope suspension in midair. I do a lot of other things. Before you judge, take a look at my work here: http://BenJMHart.Tumblr.com
I also have a blog for my vanilla photography here: http://Lightpaints.Tumblr.com
This is NOT directly sexual for me, actually I consider rope bondage more like art than like sexy funtime. My social life and hobbies relate to this stuff as much or more than my sex drive. but yes, my sex drive is a little unusual too. I would call myself a lifestyle dominant. I can 'do' plain-jane sex, but it's not my default setting, and honestly, not really what I'm looking for.
Finally, I'm not a man whore and probably won't have sex with you just because you're curious. I'm not into friends with benefits situations. Right now I want someone I can date casually, who has some growth potential.
When I DO commit to people, my preferred situation is polyfidelitous or polyamorous, not open relationships (seems common on this site). Read: I am involved with some folks, monogamy isn't on the table.
If you're confused by anything you've read so far, maybe watch this: http://bit.ly/uNOAwp
