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benjo37

38 / M / Straight / Single

Winchester, Kentucky

His Details

Last Online
May 23
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Hi everyone! I'm a very shy, quiet guy, but I'm an artist, so I make up for it with a big imagination. I'm very creative–I love to draw and write. I heart music, especially most everything classified as indie rock these days. I like to listen to NPR, enjoy all things having to do with art and culture such as galleries and museums, and generally prefer quirky independent films, although I watch my fair share of crap reality tv. Reading is definitely a big hobby of mine as well. I like contemporary literature and some sci-fi. I also like graphic novels and underground art. I wish I could consider myself hip, but hipsterdom is dying a slow death, and besides, I feel like I'm much more of a nerd. If you think we might have something in common, please stop by and say hello.
What I’m doing with my life
Working a day job at a printing company and dreaming of better things.
I’m really good at
Listening, recommending cool books and movies, noticing small things that other people don't.
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically? Maybe my blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Little, Big; Kurt Vonnegut; Gormenghast; the Moomin books; have yet to make it all the way through Gravity's Rainbow or Infinite Jest, but I'm trying; Jonathan Lethem, etc, etc., etc.

Music: early R.E.M., Pixies, Pavement, Beck, Daniel Johnston, Patti Smith, the Alabama Shakes, White Stripes – too many to mention, really. Just ask to see my iPod sometime. :)

T.V./Movies: Rushmore; Harlod & Maude; the Big Lebowski; Tarantino. I don't have a television at home right now, but I do watch shows on Netflix like Game of Thrones and the Killing. I still rather halfheartedly follow True Blood. Basically anything weird or unusual, I'm there.

Food: Thai and Vietnamese, anything spicy, locally owned restaurants
The six things I could never do without
Rock and/or roll.
Drawering materials.
Furry animal companions who don't judge me.
Art, Literature, etc.
Cool friends to share these things with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I dunno, who's reading this right now?
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably checking out a movie or reading a book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Good luck trying to pry that one out of me, haha.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to go to the Kentucky with me, check out new local restaurants, make daytrips to visit museums or galleries–all that sort of fun stuff that I feel like I'm missing out on right now.