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benny256

38 New York, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I recently escaped the world of advertising, where I spent my days convincing you to eat more Oreos, drink more Coke, and wear Hanes underwear. It was just like Mad Men, but with less drinking and sleeping around. Now I'm a full-time student, finishing my graduate degree in dance and eyeing PhD programs. I teach, choreograph, and perform around the city, and lately I've been doing some marketing consulting on the side.

I make good stews in the winter, read incessantly, have a soft spot for upstate New York and Lake Ontario, love puns, and am happy that de Blasio won.
What I’m doing with my life
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Grad schoolin' for a few more months. Teaching and dancing. Trying to improve arts education in New York City. Making friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing
Reading
Listening
Building website and apps
Going to grad school (at least, I'm good at it so far)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes people tell me that I have really long eyelashes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Henry Miller, E.B. White, Kipling, Howard Zinn, Joyce, Carroll. Paul Muldoon and Kay Ryan for poetry. The New Yorker and Harper's. NPR podcasts. All things Shakespeare. Beirut, Bach, Birdy, Coltrane, Cat Power, Lou Reed, Doveman, Rilo Kiley, Feist, The Beach Boys (they are awesome, deal with it), Miles Davis, Al Green, Jai Paul, Dizzy Gillespie, Glenn Gould, Beastie Boys, Arcade Fire, Matt & Kim, Ornette Coleman, REM, Stevie Wonder, Charles Tolliver, the Pixies, and old French songs.

This list kind of got away from me...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dance
Books
Lots of NPR
A cup of tea
Lake houses
Quiet
Crepes, and things with lemon in them
A progressive agenda
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Projects.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner with friends, seeing a performance, performing in a performance, relaxing, reading, playing with my best friend's little kid. I'm more of a cozy cafe than a loud bar or club person. I can take you swing dancing if you like!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
One of the walls in my apartment has the most amazing wallpaper you've ever seen.
You should message me if
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you are kind, intelligent, romantic, and want to go to the Secret Science Club with me (http://secretscienceclub.blogspot.com).

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