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24 M Grand Rapids, MI

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:53am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hello, I'm Ben.

My life is pretty much a constant adventure, i am a get up and go type . I'm a workaholic, artist type, ADD, dork, goof and genuine. I accept people all for who they are no matter there race, gender, or identity. It's all about respect in my world, because in the end I want to be surrounded by people who I love and love me. jealousy is something I don't have and I don't tolerate it.

Looking for a someone that can actually talk to me with brutal honesty,compassion and hold conversation but also be content when we are not phisicaly talking ,challenge/push me and just be my partner in crime.

instagram @bennyboop
It's a pretty accurate following of my life.
What I’m doing with my life
Working as a crafts man in a furniture company, cooking in a vegan vegetarian restaurant and helping run an underground music venue.

Owning my life.

looking for new people to know and maybe meet a special partner, who knows?
I’m really good at
Having endless amounts of ridiculous story's from my past or current endeavors. Riding my bike,board games all sorts of puzzles, remembering spacific details, random knowledge about subjects that don't really matter, great sence of balance, keen eye for detail, calling the ending or what's going to happen in movies/tv shows, not sleeping/sleeping, cooking, helping people move or constructing a home project, very good with kids as well.

Oh yeah I'm kind of sassy and can be redcilous but in a good way.

Riding a moped, motorcycle or bike all winter(but now I own a car).
The first things people usually notice about me
I have been told my smile, but I'm sure my big ear holes and that I'm most likely wearing all black.. Honestly I have no idea, it's probably totally situational as to when you meet me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: last exit to Brooklyn, requiem for a dream, fight club, the giver, cats cradle.

Movies: Logan's run, Anything made by heyo meazaki, Gummo, what's up rockers. And I have a ton of Disney movies on VHS.

Shows: the league, how I met your mother, adventure time,most anime, the bravest warriors, workaholics, shameless, batman. Pokémon and

Music: modest mouse, listener, sparkle horse, the flaming lips, my dad vs your dad, diplomacy, this will destroy you, explosions in the sky, Chopin, why, starfucker, systems of a down, youth lagoon, the books,misfits, broken social scene, anamaiguchi, man man, do make say think, chad vangaalen, cloud cult, memory tapes,electric wizard,slow club, black Sabbath, Alice in chains, brand new, Dr. Dog, blink 182, postal service, YBLAM, BMTH, ect../ to be continued
The six things I could never do without
1. Making art.
2. My amazing friends
3. My loving family
4. My bike, moped and car.
5. Music, fucking so much music.
6. Chemical vices
I spend a lot of time thinking about
So much stuff, but mostly what I have to do in the next few days ahead of me so I'm constantly making to-do lists.

And people, because I people watch often ,its quite fun.
On a typical Friday night I am
Work, try and figure the weekend or working a double.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am outstandingly optimistic about pretty much everything and I'm a very in my head at times but I do my best to always be attentive and outgoing.
I identify as gender fluid -look it up.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you like random weekend road trips/mini vecations.

Mid day naps and movie nights.