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24 M Grand Rapids, MI

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:56am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hello, I'm Ben.

My life is pretty much a constant adventure, i am a get up and go type. I'm a workaholic, ridiculous, non-binary, artist type, ADD, dork, minamalist, feminist, goof, sweetheart, sassy,genuine and I can be a butt.

I accept people all for who they are no matter there race, gender, or identity. It's all about respect in my world, because in the end I want to be surrounded by people who I love and love me. jealousy is something I don't have and I don't tolerate it.

instagram @bennyboop
It's a pretty accurate following of my life.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working as a craftsmin in a furniture company,working at a farm to table vegan and vegetarian resturant, running underground music venue with my friends and making art to put in gallery shows.

Owning my life I guess
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having endless amounts of ridiculous story's from my past and current endeavors, not judging others, being overly observant, random knowledge about subjects that don't really matter, sleeping, cooking, helping people move or constructing a home project, very good with kids as well.

Riding a moped, motorcycle or bike year round
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have been told my smile, but I'm sure my big ear holes and that I'm most likely wearing all black/gray and a head band. Honestly I have no idea, it's probably totally situational as to when you meet me cause I could be wearing a dress or a skirt as well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:anatomy of a girl gang last exit to Brooklyn, requiem for a dream,the giver, but honestly all I read now are comic books.

Movies: Logan's run, Anything made by heyo meazaki and I have a ton of
movies on VHS.

Shows: I don't really watch much TV ,ever.

Music: modest mouse, slow club, listener, sparkle horse, the number twelve looks like you, my dad vs your dad, diplomacy, this will destroy you, explosions in the sky, Chopin, why, starfucker, beach house, youth lagoon, the books,misfits, broken social scene, anamaiguchi, man man, do make say think, chad vangaalen, cloud cult, memory tapes,electric wizard, Alice in chains, brand new, Dr. Dog, blink 182, postal service, YBLAM, BMTH, ect../ to be continued
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Making art.
My amazing friends
My loving family
My bike, moped and car.
Music, fucking so much music.
My idenity
In no order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
So much stuff, but mostly what I have to do in the next few days ahead of me so I'm constantly making to-do lists.

And people, because I people watch often ,its quite fun.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Work, try and figure out the weekend
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am outstandingly optimistic about pretty much everything and I'm a very in my head at times but I do my best to always be attentive and outgoing.

I identify as gender queer and prefer them and thay for my pronouns.
You should message me if
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If you like random weekend road trips/mini vecations.

If you love whiskey .

Mid day naps and movie nights.