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24 M Grand Rapids, MI

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:15am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hello, I'm Ben.

No I am not a pig like all the other guys blowing you up on here.

I am constantly smiling and making the best of every situation because life can't always be taken to seriously but when it comes to being serious and responsible I know how to handle my shit. trying my best to be open minded, honest, chivalrous, very accepting, blue collar, workaholic, optimistic, outgoing(most times). Dont judge me and i won't judge you, its all about respect in my book, no matter of your sex, orientation or race.I'm usually up for anything new to do and can make friends with anyone. In my free time I am spending time with some friends doing whatever or at home drawing concepts.

Looking for a girl that can actually talk to me with brutal honesty,compassion and hold conversation, challenge/push me and just be my partner in crime.

instagram @bennyboop
It's a pretty accurate following of my life.
What I’m doing with my life
Working full time+ on the floor of a high end furniture company in the veneer department.

Graduated from Kendall college of art and design. BFA in sculpture and functional art, wood working focus.

Living life to the fullest wile I am young and making work for gallery shows.

For the future I plan to eventually go back to school to get my masters so that I can become a college professor, but that's not going to happen for about 3-4 years.

looking for new people to know and maybe meet a special lady, who knows?
I’m really good at
Having endless amounts of ridiculous story's from my past or current endeavors, Riding my bike,board games all sorts of puzzles, remembering spacific details, random knowledge about subjects that don't really matter, great sence of balance, keen eye for detail, calling the ending or what's going to happen in movies/tv shows, not sleeping, cooking, helping people move or constructing a home project, very good with kids as well.

Riding a moped or bike all winter(but now I own a car).
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told that I look like I'd be a intimidating person, I can assure you once you talk to me I am quite the opposite.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: last exit to Brooklyn, requiem for a dream, fight club, the giver, cats cradle.

Movies: Logan's run, Anything made by heyo meazaki, Gummo, what's up rockers. And I have a ton of Disney movies on VHS.

Shows: the league, how I met your mother, adventure time,most anime, the bravest warriors, workaholics, shameless, batman. Pokémon and

Music: modest mouse, listener, sparkle horse, the flaming lips, my dad vs your dad, diplomacy, this will destroy you, explosions in the sky, Chopin, why, starfucker, systems of a down, youth lagoon, the books,misfits, broken social scene, anamaiguchi, man man, do make say think, chad vangaalen, cloud cult, memory tapes,electric wizard,slow club, black Sabbath, Alice in chains, brand new, Dr. Dog, blink 182, postal service, YBLAM, BMTH, ect../ to be continued
The six things I could never do without
1. Making art.
2. My closest friends and family.
3. My bike and car.
4. My identity as a person.
5. Music, fucking so much music.
6. Idk if I can end the list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
So much stuff, but mostly what I have to do in the next few days ahead of me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Work early, find some fun with friends, enjoy the weekend off. Or working an event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am outstandingly optimistic about pretty much everything and I'm a very in my head at times but I do my best to always be attentive and outgoing.
I'm also a lesbian traped in a mans body.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you like random weekend road trips/mini vecations.

Mid day naps and the lazy movie nights couch every once in a wile.