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straight forward, flirty, and impatient

My self-summary Propose an edit

Straight forward and flirty. Those work okay to describe me when it comes to relationships. But about myself in general? Hmmm.

"Impatient," definitely marks the top of that list. (Though, in a good, life-driving force kind of way.)

Ever since I was a kid I couldn't wait to grow up. Back then, other people were making my decisions for me. I had no control.

But now I'm in the driver's seat. I make the decisions. I make things happen. It's the best feeling in the world, having control over my own life. I can't wait to see where I'll lead me next. : - P

Personal interests: trivia, eating, baking, singing, baseball, environment, community service, architecture, politics & exercise.

Personal goals (currently): To run a marathon by the time I'm 26. *Update*: Ran the SF Marathon July 2005 in under 6 hrs. *update*: training for the Lawrence 1/2 marathon in April 2008.

To spend quality time in Italy while I'm still young. (Just dropped off my application for Summer Abroad in Florence. I'll find out by the middle of March. Keeping my fingers crossed.)

To own a plot of land that I can preserve from the big bad corporations and keep it the way nature intended.

*Update*: And on this land I'm going to put a little cob and straw bale house that I will build with my own two hands.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Went to school to get my architecture degree. No wait. English. No. Linguistics. Scratch that. Baking. Yes. Joined AmeriCorps in 2005 and spent almost a year on disaster relief helping those affected by Katrina. One of my proudest accomplishments.:)Did the whole real world thing for about a year. Now I'm back in school, this time working on my bachelor's in Applied Behavior Science.

When not studying I love doing open mics (every wednesday except the first of the month at the jazzhaus), smackdown trivia, inventing new recipes, and just recently got into writing.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

frustrating people with my impatience. My parents say so all the time. but only when it's about something important, like I don't know, me.

Listening. I care what people say and how they feel. (my "impatience" doesn't apply here)

All things trivial. :-)

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

I'm pretty quiet in a lot of social settings. Not because I'm shy, or I don't have anything to say. I just like to observe. When I want to make things happen, I do.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Anything that makes me feel cozy and comfortable on a dark stormy day.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

Chocolate, a car, sex, kissing, love, and friendship (though not necessarily in that order)

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

doing yoga, hanging out downtown, playing guitar, baking, watching a movie... no real routine.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

If I admitted it here, it couldn't be too private now could it?

You should message me if Propose an edit

you think I'm cute.

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benpearl: 528 questions

Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White,
Other
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it's fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Student
Income
$0-$20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Latin (Okay), Italian (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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