benpearl
27 / f / straight / seeing someone
Lawrence, Kansas, United States
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straight forward, flirty, and impatient
My self-summary Propose an edit
Straight forward and flirty. Those work okay to describe me when it
comes to relationships. But about myself in general? Hmmm.
"Impatient," definitely marks the top of that list. (Though, in a
good, life-driving force kind of way.)
Ever since I was a kid I couldn't wait to grow up. Back then, other
people were making my decisions for me. I had no control.
But now I'm in the driver's seat. I make the decisions. I make
things happen. It's the best feeling in the world, having control
over my own life. I can't wait to see where I'll lead me next. : -
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Personal interests: trivia, eating, baking, singing, baseball,
environment, community service, architecture, politics &
exercise.
Personal goals (currently): To run a marathon by the time I'm 26.
*Update*: Ran the SF Marathon July 2005 in under 6 hrs. *update*:
training for the Lawrence 1/2 marathon in April 2008.
To spend quality time in Italy while I'm still young. (Just dropped
off my application for Summer Abroad in Florence. I'll find out by
the middle of March. Keeping my fingers crossed.)
To own a plot of land that I can preserve from the big bad
corporations and keep it the way nature intended.
*Update*: And on this land I'm going to put a little cob and straw
bale house that I will build with my own two hands.
What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit
Went to school to get my architecture degree. No wait. English. No.
Linguistics. Scratch that. Baking. Yes. Joined AmeriCorps in 2005
and spent almost a year on disaster relief helping those affected
by Katrina. One of my proudest accomplishments.:)Did the whole real
world thing for about a year. Now I'm back in school, this time
working on my bachelor's in Applied Behavior Science.
When not studying I love doing open mics (every wednesday except
the first of the month at the jazzhaus), smackdown trivia,
inventing new recipes, and just recently got into writing.
I'm really good at Propose an edit
frustrating people with my impatience. My parents say so all the
time. but only when it's about something important, like I don't
know, me.
Listening. I care what people say and how they feel. (my
"impatience" doesn't apply here)
All things trivial. :-)
The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit
I'm pretty quiet in a lot of social settings. Not because I'm shy,
or I don't have anything to say. I just like to observe. When I
want to make things happen, I do.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit
Anything that makes me feel cozy and comfortable on a dark stormy
day.
The six things I could never do without Propose an edit
Chocolate, a car, sex, kissing, love, and friendship (though not
necessarily in that order)
On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit
doing yoga, hanging out downtown, playing guitar, baking, watching
a movie... no real routine.
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit
If I admitted it here, it couldn't be too private now could it?
You should message me if Propose an edit
you think I'm cute.
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My personality awards
Questions She Cares About View all
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- Could you imagine yourself killing someone?
- · Yes
- · No
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- If you knew for sure you would not get caught, would you commit murder for ANY reason?
- · Yes
- · No
- · I'm Not Sure
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- Someone you like is drunkenly flirting with you. You know that with a sober mind this person would never engage in casual sex, but now it seems that they're willing. What do you do?
- · Take advantage of the situation
- · Absolutely nothing
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- Which is more in need of attention?
- · The current economy of your country.
- · The longterm protection of environment/resources.
Tests She's Taken View all
| Title | Her Result - female | Your Result |
|---|---|---|
| Title | Her Result - female | Your Result |
| The U.S. Geography Test | 88% geopoints | Take it! |
| The how fuckable are you? Test | 68% - " The good fuck" | Take it! |
| The 10 questions to my heart Test | 79% "I'm impressed!" | Take it! |
| The Hogwarts house Test | 50% - Hufflepuff | Take it! |
| The Labyrinth Test | 67% - Hoggle | Take it! |







