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bensnacks

23 / M / straight / Single

Buffalo, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on space camp
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am genuine, spontaneous, and fun.

My Self-Summary

im hard to nail down all neat and tidy in this little box. im complex, but i enjoy simple things, and im easy to please. Im not sure how much sense that makes.. but lets just go with it?

What I’m doing with my life

Just moved to buffalo to start fresh. but im a FOH engineer and a tour manager, so I travel quite a bit

recently i decided i want to stop that and learn how to fly helicopters or something.. i dunno, i watched jurassic park the other day, and it made flying helicopters look really cool

I’m really good at

Anything with music, i went to school for it, it pays my bills, and it makes me smile real big. i have a contagious laugh, and smile.. im pretty much the best at claw machines too. I keep a collection of quarters on me at all times for just that reason.. and un-awkwarding situations (its a very useful talent, believe me). im pretty good at mario kart, im a terrible dancer, but that hasnt ever stopped me. its been said that im a terrific cuddle buddy, which is handy i suppose.. and i won a hot dog eating contest last summer.. so im pretty good at digesting food without getting fat? not sure if metabolism qualifies as a talent, but im putting it down anyways, ill take all the gold stars i can get

The first things people usually notice about me

my sense of humor, definitely. Im a genuinely decent dude, and thats pretty obvious right off the bat too.. im not a frat dude or bar "bro", who practices cheesy pick up lines and winking in the mirror... Physically it would be the fact that i have pumpkin spice blonde (my version of red) hair, my eyes sometimes (they change, and some days are better than others) and my smile thing. its usually just a grin, but a people-pleaser all the same.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I need to read more. im trying, really.

As far as movies go, i could watch pixar all day long. its true

Im in the music industry, so i get my fill of recent stuff..Most of the time im listening to old jazz, bluegrass, or some indie-ish acoustic stuff. Im really into most music, as complicated as that is.

Food? anything but brussel sprouts or olives. If its food, i like it. and i have a major sweet tooth..

The six things I could never do without

(not really in order)
1.clean socks
2. im lumping friends and family into one, basically the "people who make you feel warm and fuzzy" i like those people.
3.sad enough, my cell phone.
4. a piano to play every once in a while
5.tasty food
6.a comfy bed
7.lists of 7 things
8. no wait.. add one more

I spend a lot of time thinking about

this and that, really. nothing for too long.

On a typical Friday night I am

Depends if im on tour or not, really. its 2 completely different lives.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I really like chick flicks. i could watch elizabethtown over and over.

You should message me if

you're not crazy.

well, you can be sorta crazy. but the good kind of crazy..?

if you have freckles. freckles make me melt..

or if this made you giggle, even a little.

and you know what? you've read this far, so you might as well... cmon, grow a pair.

(please dont grow a pair. ew.)